No excuses.
This is just my opinion it’s gonna sound mean but I held off on my comments about Tophia hoping she would make some wise decisions. Hoping that’s what happened would help her see the life she claims she loved (living in a car) wasn’t good for her. Only to be let down. Let’s be clear the bar wasn’t too high. The only two people I feel sympathy for is Donald and Marie. I could not imagine watching my child die in front of me and obvious Donald being the victim. Her recent posts and stories just confirms what most of us knew. She’ll never change. I’m barely keeping my family afloat and even with a job there’s certain resources I need and use to be able to make it but my job helps tremendously!!!! It’s not just her tho that expects everyone to take care of them other creators do as well but to say you should’ve gotten help sooner? Or we should’ve helped sooner? Where would it end? Would we care for y’all til the end of time? That was on you miss girl!! The only one with a valid excuse not to work was Marie! I’ve told my mother to not worry about work and she can live with me for free and she still does but works part time cause of boredom. Tophia should’ve been hitting the clock like Donald. They had a whole year! And yes I understand people are homeless and things happen I’ve been homeless I get it but I worked my ass off and still do to never be homeless again.!!!! She did nothing for that whole year but sit on live and taunt people. Rest up Donald and I hope you heal fast Marie!
Archived Comments
-
-
Nope I agree 💯
-
Also none of use owe her money lol. Why is she acting like a damn debt collector. No one owes random “influencers” money. We all care about ourselves and the little money that some people have donated has clearly been put into things they don’t need (comic con, temu crap, excessive fast food). What does she think people who don’t have an online platform do when they need money? They work harder or ask family and friends lol. Unfortunately she has no family and friends but she can very much work. She is able bodied. She disgusts me honestly, always begging for money lol.
-
-
Like I really feel stupid for feeling bad for any of them...
-
I feel bad for Marie and Donald jr that’s it.
-
-
He should have had a pair of nuts and told Tophia to either get a job or rough it on your own. He should have taken his mother some safe other than living in a car. But he chose to stay with Tophia and support her delusions of hitting it rich on tiktok. Plus, I really don't feel sorry for some chomo anyway.
-
You're a moron if you think that Mamachu would separate from Tophia. His choice was to go live on his own and be poor, or be poor but keep his only family with him. It's easy to sit behind a screen and say that you would abandon them, but when it comes down to it 99% of people aren't going to abandon the only loved ones they have even if it keeps the person in a rough situation.
-
Sorry, I'm speaking the truth. I know it's hard for you to understand.
-
Nice another sympathizer delete 😋.
-
-
Rule 7: Be Civil
Please refrain from using insulting or argumentative language towards other members. If you do not like a post or comment that has been submitted, unless it breaks a rule and you need to report it, please scroll to the next topic. Repeat offenders will be banned from this sub.
-
-
-
Honestly right now I'm trying to take everything she says with a grain of salt. Grief makes you do and say things you don't mean. She really just needs to log off, because this isn't good for her. Obviously Tophia isn't the greatest person in the world, but she just watched a horrific crime that no person should have to see. I can almost 100% guarantee she's not in her right state of mind.
-
Like this might be biased and 100% projecting but when my father passed away I was completely disassociated for the first few weeks. I was not aware of what was going on around me, and obviously grief affects everyone differently but regardless of how she's grieving she needs help. She needs a therapist before she needs an Instagram story
-
Agreed. I lost my step father a year ago and how Tophia cried about her brothers death really reminded me of how everyone reacted to my step fathers death. Watching people break down after hearing about the loss of a loved one is a really hard pill to swallow. I’m giving her the benefit of the doubt because she seems really out of her mind right now, but I’m really hoping she gets help. What happened to her and Mamachu was very tragic and traumatizing.
-
-
-
I'm just here to see the regret from the clowns who donated her money. It's coming. I give it a month or two, and she'll be begging for more cash.
-
At the end of the day why you so worried about her anyway her brother just died like yall so selfish yes I agreed she is a lazy as hell but she clearly have mental issues everyone is ignoring she need to go to an asylum you guys know she needs help way more extensive help then just an income she has mental illness and we need to start calling adult authorities vs sitting up her complaining about a mental ill woman we get it your a hard working we all are we don’t have a choice but tophia needs to be in a adult group home bd her parents also needs to me in a facility if you going to help donate,donate but if not try to help her other ways especially if you live in her state
-
Because she’s acting like WE were supposed to bank roll their life while SHE sat around doing nothing. I agree they should’ve been getting help but SHE refused and Marie just followed her. Idk why Donald didn’t bounce but he should’ve at some point. She financially abused her dad and her brother. Had she accepted she needed help and got it they wouldn’t have been homeless. I’m not saying he couldn’t have been leaving work and this could have happened it could have but if they had a home or at least a motel they would’ve been somewhat safer. We’re all out here barely living and people like her expect us to pay for her and her family to live. That’s why I care don’t say WE owe you anything. She owes it to herself before anyone owes her anything. Keep feeling sorry for her and send her money she’ll
Post a pic from comic con in your honor-
Exactly why you letting her get to you she is older then me I’m not taking care of nobody older then me fr idk only thing you can do is call adult social services
-
Like I said it my opinion just as you have yours
-
-
-
Im sorry but this whole situation really should be a wake up call for her. As much as I feel bad about her situation , it’s just wrong for her to immediately blame us for the fact she lost her brother, and how we should’ve given money sooner or none of this would’ve happened. Some people have tried giving you money, but due to your history of bad spending habits, how could we really trust you with money? (Sorry if this sounds a bit insensitive to anyone, I’m not very good with wording ^^)