Sad but true. I can almost bet tophia is thinking right now. Oh I can afford a lawyer now to clear my name. If any of Donald Jrs friends are in the SUB PLEASE do not give Tophia the money. Give it to the funeral home directly or buy grocery gift cards
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While I don’t fully disagree with you, I’m glad you’re being honest. I wish more people would just be straight up and say they don’t want her getting money bc they don’t want her having a come up and getting “big headed” rather than hiding behind the actual reason and saying “I’m concerned bc she has bad money management”.
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I dunno, who is even bothered when Tophia calls them broke? I feel like the money management is worse.
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Well, I get bothered when she calls me broke because then I know 10 minutes later or the next day she’s gonna be talking about how hard her life is and that we should donate to her Cash app
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That’s what I’m saying though. A lot of people don’t want her having a come up off of other peoples money and that’s the real reason they don’t want her having access to money. I’m not saying it’s wrong I just don’t know why more people can’t be honest.
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Probably not, it'll be going to temu jewelry, patty melts, convention tickets, all the usual frivolous nonsense
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Exactly as much as my heart breaks for her. I also know her. Her mind was already wonky before all this. I can’t imagine her current mental state and how she’ll try to justify all this retail therapy.
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A lawyer will never take the case bc there isn’t one🤣
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A very valid point
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I’ve seen people run through tens of thousands of dollars when family passed away, my cousin included. Hopefully whatever money she gets from whoever gets it to her, she saves it and does something worthwhile with it instead of just splurging.
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Mine too. I know it’s not my life, but from the depths of my soul. Tophia is not responsible with money at ALL. She doesn’t know how to manage money. She doesn’t have the concept. She grew up in POVERTY and believes 3,000.00 a month is a lot of money. Truth be told most people can’t even afford to live of 3,000.00 a month, but she believes that’s good money. Imagine her seeing 30,000 in her account? She needs a MENTOR a life counselor to help her make good financial decisions. Mark my words. She will live high on the hogs for awhile with all the support and money given to her and that money will be gone within a few months. Tophia if you’re reading this. Your mom will not be here forever with you. One day you will wake up alone. Please take the help that is given to you right now. Please get a job. Please get off the internet for awhile. Please get a grip of your life. Please! This is the perfect time to leave the internet and get a job and take care of yourself and your mother while she is still with you. Your mother deserves to live the rest of her life in a stable home without the stress and harassment of the internet.
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This is a really great take imo. I also think she's not capable of managing her own money without a caregiver or "sponser" type person to help her live on her own. She was never given the skills for this kind of thing and with her disability it's not something I think she'd learn without help
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I live off of 2k a month just fine.
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strongly depends on where you live. in my city 2k a month would get you nowhere, and that goes for most americans
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I normally just do a roomate situation but instead I came to help my mom so it’s a little bit less. I go to food ands since I don’t qualify for stamps. I shop at thrift stores or amazon basics deals. I shop at Sam’s. I never eat out not fast food either. I buy in bulk. I don’t go to concerts or shows of any kind unless they are free and can’t go one trips. But that ok. I have warm food in belly at night and a roof over my head so no complaints.
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I wish I could say the same. Where I live a 1 bedroom runs you 1800.00 a month.
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Tophia should definitely not be the one handling the money
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That’s the first thing I thought of. She will never work as Marie enables her to spend others money.
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That girl is not worried about a lawyer lmao
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This is so sick, imagine your family got harmed in such a horrible way, one of your family members passed in a agonising way and there’s people on the internet discussing if you know how to deal with money or not. TOUCH SOME GRASS
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She makes all of this public knowledge. It is in the open Internet now. We are all saying true things. It isn't just a mean thing... She can't spend money right. She has no clue what being an actual adult is and she is 30. She needs guidance and to get off TikTok.
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Why do you guys even come to this subreddit then?
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Her head is going to get big off this money and she will be back to calling people broke in 5 months . This money should go towards funeral expenses and helping Marie get the care she needs and into some kind of housing .