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1. Apprehensive-Leg-118 • Mar 16, 2025 3:23 pm Share • 18

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   I really don’t think she does either……I think initially it was traumatic for her and her crying was real but I don’t think she has empathy like a normal person tbh

   1. bontens • Mar 16, 2025 3:29 pm Share • 13

      if she felt anything, it was for a millisecond and then it became "how can i make this about ME. how can i turn this into MY trauma, MY life ruined." i get it she saw him shot and killed, but since then it's become about donating, or lack thereof. personally i wouldn't give her a dime and i don't care much for anyone who would.

2. 1RegalBeagle • Mar 16, 2025 3:32 pm Share • 18

   Text book narcissist reaction to death.
   Using it for personal gain ✅
   unable to show grief or empathy for others affected (like Marie) ✅
   Only focussed on what it means for her and what she’s lost ✅
   Anger/aggressive outbursts ✅
   Emotional detachment (focused on impact to her not that her brother is gone) ✅

3. urpsychoshawty • Mar 16, 2025 3:29 pm Share • 13

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   i think she’s more upset at the fact that she has to get a job now to support herself and marie, esp since donald jr. was the ONLY one doing anything to earn money for that family.

   1. bontens • Mar 16, 2025 3:31 pm Share • 11

      she's not going to get a job because she's "traumatized". trauma victims work every fucking day like NORMAL PEOPLE. by that logic most ppl wouldn't be employed because we're all victims of some sort of trauma, big or small.

4. tinydreams95 • Mar 16, 2025 3:33 pm Share • 8

   I do not believe Tophia experiences empathy. It's also why she abuses animals so comfortably she's fine doing it on stream, why she gets annoyed rather than concerned by her mother's black lung, why she can say the most vile shit anyone's ever heard all day every day about everyone etc.

5. RafSimonsSS02 • Mar 16, 2025 3:33 pm Share • 6

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   Her response to something VERY traumatic is sociopathic…

   1. bontens • Mar 16, 2025 3:36 pm Share • 2

      it's a very narcissistic way to react. from the beginning, it was about how she would be affected. yes she "cried" saying he should've lived to 30, got married and had kids but that was the most she said on the issue without bringing herself up. this isn't "grieving differently" this is "the focus is on him when it should be on me"

6. Both-Structure-6786 • Mar 16, 2025 3:37 pm Share • 3

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   I mean everyone experiences grief differently, but shortly after her brother died she described it on her stories as him being “unalived” that just seemed odd to me.

   1. bontens • Mar 16, 2025 3:39 pm Share • 2

      that's another thing that bothers me. stop using the tiktokification of words and being a fucking adult. he was killed he was murdered he was shot quit it with the "unalived with a pew pew" she obviously doesn't take shit seriously enough to be a grown up and use Real Words

7. atomiclovebomb • Mar 16, 2025 3:45 pm Share • 2

   i partially feel like she isn’t mentally capable of fully understanding what happened. like not mentally capable of opening her eyes to the steps she should take now, she just believes it’ll just work itself out for her like it always does. however, unfortunately, the person who always figured it out for them is no longer with us and she’s yet to realize that.

8. josieduhclown • Mar 16, 2025 3:38 pm Share • 1

   I think she’s more sad she lost what her brother provided her with than the fact she lost her actual brother

9. Top_Sheepherder1087 • Mar 16, 2025 4:00 pm Share • 1

   idk if she cares or not there’s probably times shes broken down off camera but regardless i just cant help but feel bad for donald just thinking youre safe and sound and getting ready for the next day just to wake up dead because a stranger decided to kill you at your most vulnerable time of day and u didnt even get to fight for your life like my god thats upsetting to imagine

10. bea-belcher • Mar 16, 2025 4:01 pm Share • 1

    I did have sympathy the day it happened, I mean it’s human to feel bad for someone else. As time goes, I feel for Marie and Donald sr, as their child has passed and Marie witnessed it and was injured herself. As we’ve gotten more details on the situation, I’m more frustrated that tophia doesn’t realize her own actions and choices put her in the wrong place at the wrong time. I’m sorry her brother passed, but I’m not giving her any money for “emergency stuff” now that she’s scrambling.

11. tophiachutiktok-ModTeam • Mar 16, 2025 4:05 pm Share • 1

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