So now the excuse for not stepping up in life is because she has trauma
So before when ppl told her she needed to get her life together and get a job it was so funny because “getting a 9-5 is lame, it will get me nowhere. Everyone who works a 9-5 are miserable slaves and I’m so cool bc I sit on my ass all day”. Now the excuse is she can’t do anything for herself because she has trauma. Is no one else getting bored of it all? She also said “you guys are telling me to go to therapy, well I think YOU should go” like girl…how is that every logical and real solution she finds it offensive. Now she’s going on about how “I only talked about people’s 💀 relatives bc you talked about my grandma” seriously wtf is going on here. And save it if ur gonna tell me how ppl grieve differently, this woman isn’t 18, she isn’t even 25. She’s fully in her 30’s and has accomplished nothing in her life, she can’t even realize that if the internet is responsible for ruining her life she should LOG OFF. TURN IT OFF. LOCK IN! It’s all so depressing how everyone came together thinking tophia would somehow accept real help and she’s again…laughing and accusing everyone of her issues.
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Nah she’s def said this before lollll
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She made a post telling Marie were buying them a house because she's a scared mom of three 😭
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Her example of school shootings is insane because those kids very much do go back to school weeks later.
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When i was in high school, we had a student bring a gun to school and show it off. They had been threatening another student on school grounds. Guess what? We still went to school the next day. A school in my city did have an actual shooting where one was injured; Those children somehow went to school only 3 days after.
These things are not in anyway comparable..
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My kids had one a few years ago. They returned to school the next day, and no one was hurt. Thank God.
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Ugh I’m so sorry :( can’t imagine having to deal w that as a parent
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It's hard, but I can't homeschool. I tried during COVID. I took it as an opportunity, and I failed. It all sucks
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There has never been a rock bottom for her. Any normal person would have used living in a car for months as motivation to change something. At this point let her blow through the funds and keep living her awful life. Maybe after this people will never donate again.
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Trauma from what? Getting told she stinks at Dunkin????
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😭😭😭😭😭
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Lmao I'm sorry that shit pisses me off, man. 😂😂
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Nah, speak your truth 😂
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LMFAO
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Look I don’t like tophia at all but you asking what she has trauma from is crazy like she didn’t see her mother or brother get shot 😭
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she said she had trauma from working jobs, yes she now has trauma from her brothers shooting but she said she never got a 9-5 because of trauma
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She said nothing about her brother's death, she's talking about having trauma from working lol.
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She doesnt realize ppl have been thru trauma and just keep going to work😭😭😭 like yes tophia thats the fucked up reality of life, we cant just quit work and then put ourselves and even our family maybe in the streets bc of trauma. She be saying how we shouldnt have to do xyz bc of how messed up it is, like working 2 jobs to survive and she be right, but this world doesnt have the same compassion or grace for us and you live as if it does. Refusing to partake in it will not change how anything works, thats why shes been homeless off and on for years.
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No she’s the only one who has trauma 😡
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I think half the people she pisses off are traumatized. Or have actual PTSD. Which you do not automatically have after a traumatic event. And yet still take care of themselves? Wild. But Tophia is of course the biggest victimchu in the world
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She must be staying at a shelter or motel, because she seems to be back in her ‘comfort zone’ if you will; a bed, an outlet to charge her phone and a space to run her mouth again on the internet.
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She’s staying at a motel / hotel right now
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She’s gonna trash it
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I’m pretty sure 99.99% of people in this sub have traumas, that doesn’t mean we’re all lazy bums (I hope)
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Yeah, she’s gonna milk this til the end of time. Everything even vaguely related to guns or brothers or cars is gonna trigger her now.
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She’s saying that now cos that’s what people who are defending her are saying.
Some of you think you’re helping her by letting her get behind her by saying “she’s grieving ! She’s traumatized!” And all she’s doing is seeing that and using it to be a grifter and horrible to people.
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It's like she thinks that she's the only one who has ever been through something horrible. People that have gone through traumatic events go to work and school every single day, she is so unbelievably entitled. Like at some point you have to work through what happened get back to living. Though I'm not surprised the chronically unemployed 30 year old feels this way.
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As someone who makes money off of TikTok I have a 9 to 5 as well. I’m a part timer and I work front desk. It’s all just me picking up phone calls. She could do that or be a dish washer if she doesn’t want to talk to anyone.
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Tophia will use every excuse under the sun instead of admit she doesn’t want to get a job. The fact is she’s happy being a victim and doesn’t want anything for her life.
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Tophia is content with what she has with her life. She expects handouts from everyone. Now she’s going to expect her TikTok followers to give her money for a house. Like she has zero logic on how she’s going to pay bills if she doesn’t have a job. And her mother needs to be in a nursing home cause neither one of them are unable to care for themselves.
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She’s going to ride this excuse for the rest of her life, sadly. She will never be able to help herself.
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Well if she can’t do anything for herself then She should be made award of the state
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New excuse before GTA 6
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Now she’s gonna use trauma as a reason to not do anything. She already didn’t want to go outside now she can use her trauma. Marie is doomed.
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Where will she be sitting on her ass? There’s no more CarChu.
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CLOCK ITTTTTTT
New excuse unlocked.