I know I've made various Tophia posts on this subreddit before and to be honest, I have taken some of those posts down. Now, I'm not a fan of Tophia and I don't support the things she has said and/or done on her livestreams, she really isn't the best person but that doesn't give the excuse to either DM her or comment telling her: "it's your fault". Tophia didn't deserve what had happened to her a few days ago and neither did her mother Marie nor her brother Donald.

(Out of respect I won't be referring to her mother or brother as the nicknames they were being called, I'll be using their actual names. Just out of respect).

There are limits on what you can say and do towards an individual, Tophia isn't the best person (we all know) however wishing harmful things upon her or even blaming her for all of this is just not it at all. It's vile and just heartbreaking, I may not like Tophia and what she says on her lives but I'm not going to sit here wish something harmful onto her or blame her for any of what happened. Some of you that comment on other people's posts onto this subreddit, some of them are just so disrespectful and disgusting (the ones that are saying it's her fault/blaming it on her or how she deserves it), its seriously wrong to even think or straight up comment it. Now, I am not defending Tophia's past actions and I'm not "switching up" it's literally having the basic human decency and sympathy for another person that's going through something they shouldn't have to go through. It's unfortunate seeing the amount of people I've come across whether it be on here, TikTok and Instagram just be so.. vile towards Tophia.

Sending my condolences to Tophia and Marie, sending prayers and positive energy their way. I hope Tophia and Marie are doing ok, I hope they'll stay safe. No one deserves to go through something as horrific as this, wishing nothing but the best for them right now.

(I wasn't sure what tags to use so this is the opinion tag, again my post isn't harmful I'm being genuine with this post, losing a family member, loved one, etc. is a hard thing to go through and she didn't deserve any of this).