The “Shes grieving” excuse
I would like to premise this post by saying i did AND STILL feel incredibly sad for what happened to her that night. It was absolutely tragic and i wouldn’t wish it on anyone, but the “she’s grieving” excuse doesn’t hold up at all.
I will assume the majority of us here have lost a loved one in the past. Personally, I have never thought of lashing out on random people i don’t even know, NOT EVEN 24h after my loved one’s passing. My thoughts were exclusively memories of that person, so, I really fail to understand how people let Tophia be mad disrespectful to random people because “shes grieving”, that ain’t an excuse to be an asshole.
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just like how she don’t give af about donald sr she only cared about the va check
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idk why you got downvoted when ur lowkey right
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I am sure she is grieving her brother but it feels missed with love for brother, treating bro like husband in the way he provides, lots of guilt. I’m sure the guilt thing is a part of Her grieving appropriately anyway. Also a guilt having Marie live with chronic concisions. Pretty sure AzpS has already been working this case due to Marie and all the reports the previously got.
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If she had guilt for Marie’s chronic illnesses, she wouldn’t currently be dead set on having Marie back with her rather in a skilled nursing facility where she can actually be taken care of. She’d rather let Marie die in agony than be taken care of.
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this is exactly it. whenever people bring up a nursing facility she loses it going “how dare you guys telling us to separate from each other when we’re both suffering” because she knows that with marie out of the picture, donald dead, donald sr in jail she has to actually get her shit together and will have zero excuse. especially now that they don’t the car and she can’t even drive anyway.
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Like we’ve seen how she treats her family on a day-to-day basis. Hell look at how she treated the dog and the kitten. When I heard her laughing, that kitten was crying out in pain trying to choke down foo It had to literally steal from her? I knew that despite whatever diagnosis or whatever bullshit situation she’s going through??? She’s clearly dealing with some level of sociopath or NPD. Like sure she’s probably definitely scared and upset and I’ll probably a wee bit sad that her brother is gone because the sad thing is those two were the closest things she had to friends. He was her ticket to the outside world- his friend were her friends
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tbh, I felt awful for her at first…before the memory of that poor kitten screaming for a piece of bacon as Tophia and Marie laughed and manhandled it popped up in my head. Sympathy gone. 🙃
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It’s not grief, it’s greed lol
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You win dude lol
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No literally, she's too chronically online, it's genuinely hard to have sympathy for her specifically cause she just refuses to accept reality and will blame everyone but herself.
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i also remember how bad being online made me feel, it was so triggering seeing people just living their lives and being happy, i felt like the whole world had to stop. A very very uncomfortable feeling, so i don’t get why she can just sit down and read troll comments and comments in general for hours instead of just staying offline and as close as possible to her mom.
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I don't know how to grieve because you guys won't leave me alone!
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as if she can’t just shut that damn phone off
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Blaming trauma is literally so stupid to me. Why didn’t she have a job before this? I’ve literally went to school/work while having a miscarriage, which is not easy to do. She’ll just continue to find reasons to not work.
she’s grieving what he did for her and what she benefited from him being alive, not brotherchu as a person.