Excuse me and just asking, but why are we battling others on which is the appropriate reaction to the situation that Tophia's family is in?? Everyone has their own rights to react, there's no need to fight for whose reaction is appropriate. I feel sympathy for Tophia, of course. Who wouldn't?? But not sympathy for the way SHE handles it. There are plenty of ways to handle your way around social media, but please be careful about what you say. Words are meaningless without actions, so "be careful what you say. Protect your life, a careless talker destroy themselves." Tophia is aware of what her situation is. It is just depends on HOW she handles it.. My opinion, by the way, so feel free to comment below. No hard feelings ✌️♥️