This is for Tophia Defender’s that are using a “disability”( a disability that she hasn’t been diagnosed with) to defend her!
Idky tf, y’all keep saying that she has a “disability” to justify her life choices, especially during this time.
Yes, I do believe that she has something, but she hasn’t been DIAGNOSED with anything, she can walk, talk, and more, so stop with the excuses.
People with disabilities have been FIGHTING against this rhetoric of others seeing them as incompetent. There are a lot of disabled people who’ve productive lives: they work, have children, drive, vote, and etc.
Even the disabled people who do depend on others for support, they are still more active than Tophia will EVER BE. (By her own choice)
Tophia has shown us time and time again that if she wants something she’s going to it: scamming using GFM, going to ComicCon when she was supposed to be moving, ComicCon again while living in a car spending over $500, going to LV for a BTS concert, buying Barbie heels that her size 14 feet can’t fit and buying D00rD@sh every single day.
If she wanted better for herself, she WOULD do better, but she doesn’t care about anything other than herself!
Her mother is sitting in the hospital with multiple injuries from an event that she was ALSO affected by, rather than login off of Social Media to be with her during this time that is also traumatic for her mother, ToeToe focusing on herself: blaming others for her own actions for the 2000th time and expecting us to provide for her lifestyle.
My question is since Tophia is “sooo disabled, poor tink-tink can’t do anything for herself” are y’all going to open up y’all’s homes to let her mooch off of y’all? Are you going to give her money to blow it on miscellaneous things that she doesn’t need?
NO, so stop itttt. Y’all the main reason why she is the way she is including her parents (mainly her mother) who has constantly enabled her behavior, so now she’s this 10 year old child stuck in a 30 year old body.
If y’all want to support people how about supporting organizations, businesses, and communities that need it, that are actually helping others ? Oh no, y’all have “doubts” about them, but are willingly shaming others about someone who wouldn’t spit on you if you were in fire.
Ooo I feel a lot better, thanks!
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Omgg really, that’s a kee 😂
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who tf downvoted this u aint lie fhsjdhjf
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Her supporters be in here snooping too. I’m sure it was one them that got offended
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“People with disabilities have been FIGHTING against this rhetoric of others seeing them as incompetent.” FUCKING PREACH. People are so quick to infantilize and make victims out of people with disabilities and give them excuses. They are human beings too and need accountability like the rest of us. That’s how they grow as people. While I believe Tophia has a learning disability she is NOT diagnosed, like you said, people are literally sprinkling in this excuse any chance they get to look like a good person who truly cares and has a savior complex. News flash, people with disabilities don’t need to be saved by you, they need to be respected as individuals.
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Yess!! I didn’t think of the “savior complex” POV, but you’re right! I have a family member who’s wheelchair bound & on the low spectrum of Autism. When we were kids, she would get trouble with rest of us. 😂
She told my siblings, cousins, and I. That she was grateful for us because we didn’t infantlize her. All she wanted to be was “normal” and we gave her that.
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I love hearing it 🥰 not that she’s disabled of course, but that her family respected her enough to give her a full life with respect. I’m sure she turned out wonderful. People think we always need to save everyone different than us or down on their luck and while their hearts are in the right place, it’s not always the best thing to do. Trust me I’ve learned this the hard way.
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I said the same thing, and they deleted my post 😭😭
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😭 I’m sorry abt that… but hey, at least we are on the same page 😂
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I do believe she has a disability. I have a genetic disorder myself and I don’t act like her. I work two jobs, etc. so even though I believe she does have a disability called KBG syndrome, it doesn’t give her an excuse to act how she does, as even kids with cognitive disabilities learn basic hygiene.
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“There are a lot of disabled people who’ve productive lives: they work, have children, drive, vote, and etc. Even the disabled people who do depend on others for support, they are still more active than Tophia will EVER BE.”
i am so so SO fucking tired of hearing this excuse for tophia. it’s disgusting that people dish out that absolute bull. thank you for saying this.
They stick up for her but she won’t stick up for them that’s the funny part💀. I remember when she told her followers in quote
“don’t run to me for help if trolls start harassing you. It’s your fault not mines”
People still love her after what? Me personally I WOULDNT😭😭😭