Tophia doesn’t have a surviving bone in her body.
I understand that what happened to Tophia was extremely traumatic for her, but in the same token she’s going to milk this situation dry because she lives off of sympathy. It ain’t even been a week yet. It’s almost like she’s incapable of holding herself up. No life skills, no perseverance, no etiquette, no bravery, no nothing. Girly can’t even spell, she’s so behind. It’s scary to think about, honestly. She’s going to publicly cry, argue, and feed into chaos because that’s her only tangible skill in 30 years of living.
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Here is something many people need to understand - just because you went through major trauma doesn't mean that you'd consider changing yourself for the better or listen to good advice. I am not sure why so many people who post here believe that. Idealism perhaps?
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Death changes people all the time. Just not this idiot.
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Its fairly common for people to change after an event like that, I dont think its that weird to think people assumed she would atleast improve.
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She doesnt love herself at all bc she put herself in the worst position. Even if donald didnt pass, there was always the possibility he would throw her to the damn curb and he lowkey was planning to do it anyways. Yes this entire thing isn't her fault, but keep in mind her and her brother had the same parents and same childhood, yet one actually kept jobs and worked. The difference is her ass is lazy and relied on her brother and her dad's $400 monthly allowance to her from his disability checks. Tophia refuses to actually put herself in a better position and now she's forced to deal with those consequences very quickly and in a very traumatic situation
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While it is true, it isnt entirely her fault. Everything about a person beggins in childhood. She was probably never taught to get an education, get a job, hell her parents probably never even taught her how to take care of herself hygiene wise. She's been set up to fail from the beginning.
She had chances to pick herself up when they still had a roof above their head but she messed up and decided to end up homeless over getting a job to pay for rent. Anything can happen, yet she will never get a job. She hasnt been taught that once youre an adult you are supposed to have responsibilites. She literally thinks its not her responsibility to support herself and her family financially, shes mentally a kid. She prefers her "social media job" because she gets gifts like ramen over a job that provides stability.
She has been set up from the get go, and she probably has some sort of delay developmentally and cant probably grasp the reality of the situations she's been in. She doesnt need more things to happen to her, she needs some sort of support program.
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Marie is constantly backing her up when she goes live. She would literally be in the background saying bs about how they were okay with living in a car, oh because they can just instantly drive where they want as if people with homes can’t. Why on earth would you ever encourage that to your daughter???? Or she would gaslight tophia into thinking she’s truly doing good with TikTok as a “job”. I guess for tophia she has the decision to decide what’s truly a sustainable lifestyle for her but she keeps holding onto the wrong one because Marie tells her it’s okay.
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Marie is her #1 enabler. i truly dont know how they can all be okay with living out of a car. i remember when marie said "theyre just jealous of the way you live" or something like that and i was like what
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They could drive “anywhere they want” and weren’t tied down with a lease/mortgage payment, yet when many suggested doing some research and leaving Albuquerque for somewhere with a lower cost of living and crime rate, that was an outrageous thought lol
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>because they can just instantly drive where they want as if people with homes can’t
And yet they remained parked in Albuquerque.
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Like, think about it. She has no one but her family. Mother is elderly and ill, father is mentally ill, she could have followed her brothers footsteps considering he was the familys main "breadwinner" but even he switched jobs constantly. She doesnt have any good role models, never had. She needs to be surrounded by people who understand her, but can show her what shes supposed to be doing at her age and that it isnt all that bad and scary as she thinks it is.
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No friends or social life either. She tried to claim her brother’s friends as her own
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This Reddit has given her resources, money, and help more than most people could in a lifetime, and she takes it and smacks the person in the face with it. In January, when she got over that 4/5k, people told her not to spend it, to pay for a room, and to work on real housing. And like always, her famous words, "This money now won't help me later," and blew it 😭 she gets to hit the restart button and always blows it. I genuinely hope someone takes the money and forces her to be responsible with it because I don't see this going well.
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No one taught me that stuff either. Every thing I know I learned on my own.
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Well Marie is the one that encourages her behavior. Marie tells us to mind our business so bec of Marie’s behavior it might be too late for Fat azzz to change
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shes so slow
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She is literally dedrater to some extent or another it's undeniable she can barely speak, since she's been homeless you can hear her slower, more slurred speech, it's like she's getting slower.
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Ugh. Tophia is exhausting. As someone who has been through a similar, traumatic situation, losing a family member, and catching a bullet myself, you should take this time to grieve in a healthy way, set your loved one's affairs in order, find ways to seek closure for a situation that seems insane, HEAL. She could've just dipped. She could have just took the GFM money and just lived her life. Helped her mother. She's like a psychic vampire, feeding off the sympathy and hate of others. Again: EXHAUSTING.
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so sorry you had to go through that btw :/
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The only way Big T could prove to be useful to anyone, anywhere was if she happened into the Warhammer 40k universe and was a servitor... Honestly.
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She better hope Marie lives for awhile now that the brother is gone when Marie goes she’s in her own and believe reality will set in for her she needs to get her life together before it’s to late but whatver this pride she has is definitely in the way !!!
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Her family reminds me of a POC version of inbred hillbillies
I been saying she is slow her family is very uneducated sadly. Plus mental issues yea bad combo. And denying help, "we can only lead a horse to water".