Tophia getting mad after being told that she shouldn’t grieve her still born sister
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She doesn’t. She probably isn’t affected by it. She just uses it to make people feel bad for her.
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ya shes lost it..
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Did she ever “have it”?
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Yes it was a full term stillborn
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That's not what they meant 😭
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What made you think that’s what I was asking?
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The “ya she’s lost it” wasn’t there when I commented
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Right, that would be like my oldest saying, "I wish my baby sister were here," his baby sister being my miscarriage. My kids don't even know about her, and my husband and I don't talk about it because it's sad, but she was never here and didn't make it. Or what about my stillborn sibling? They never existed. My mom said it was a girl, but I am unsure. She acts like this only happens to them and it's more for her mom to bear. I bet Marie loves reliving that day over and over again.
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always saying she has nobody but marie is literally next to her up in a hospital bed
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Imagine being on deaths door in a hospital bed while having your narcissistic ogre daughter next to you bitching to strangers online about your stillborn baby 😭
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Yeah idk why Marie puts up with this shit. I’d rather be alone than have my daughter bring up my still born baby to “win” an argument with strangers on the internet.
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Any time Marie stands up to her, Tophia always does something like take her cell phone away from her sold her laptop so the poor woman gives up
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yeah lowkey putting salt on the wound
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She has nobody - to take care of *her*. Now she has to get it together to take care of her mother. Her brother isn’t around to put some kind of roof over their heads anymore.
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She was on a ramble and said her mom was dead, and I'm starting to think that's how she's taking this, even though Marie is right there
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what kind of normal person brings up an angel baby who was born long before them??? let that poor angel rest😭
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She’s always brought her up. She’s even said on live “If my sister was alive she would love me. You can’t say the same about your sister.” It’s super weird tbh
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that’s so gross and narcissistic…
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*Especially* while you’re next to your injured mother.
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She never existed...she was born dead, sadly. 3 years before you were born, tophia...your mother is allowed to grieve her. not you. maybe grieve your brother who was alive and in your life instead of liking videos gay men in spiderman costumes showing their asses.
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This comment is killing me 😭😭😭
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LMFAOOOOOOO
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PLEASEE
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My mom had 3 babies that passed, I dont grieve siblings Ive never met. Toph shouldnt feel anything over that. Marie is the one who lost her kid, not her. Shes trying to gain sympathy points 100%
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I genuinely don’t think she’s grieving brotherchu. She’s grieving the financial dependence she was going to have on him in her later years. She’s crashing out because she’s cooked without him.
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You have nobody? Bitch your mother is clinging to life next to you put the phone down, stop bitching on the internet, and stay with your mother in these trying times
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Marie can GRIEVE that child, you can’t. You can’t grieve someone you didn’t know that never got to live. Marie grew that baby and felt it kick and heard its heartbeat, quit stealing your mom’s trauma and making it about you.
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So I commented this on her tiktok video, but my point was the way she phrased it. She said “I never thought I would lose another sibling” to me, that implies she had gone through the trauma of losing her sister. We know she hasn’t bc this child was way before tophia was born. In my opinion, she was using this to gain more sympathy from people. It’s absolutely okay for her it feel sad for Marie or wish her sister was here. However it’s fucked up to use your mother’s trauma and turn it into your own. Your mother having a still born 2-3 years before you were born does not give you trauma and it shouldn’t be used to get more sympathy. Sorry not sorry.
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Reminds me of when my sim's kids are "grieving" a sim they never met. Like girl you didn't even KNOW them
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i wonder if papachu knows what’s going on
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I sincerely thought this today. Does she know what happened to his son? Has he been able to get to visit his wife? I know he got released from jail the other day.
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I sincerely think they have no contact & haven't been in contact since they left aptmentchu..he wasn't with them in the motelchu from what I noticed, but I could be wrong
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I, too, had the theory that all that "we're trying to get him help" was all bs. If they wanted to help him, they would have already.
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yup , I thought that as well. I was going to say that in my msg too & 4got lol. they're not helping him in any way .. we would've seen him in the mix by now ..hell he would've been in the carchu with them if they were helping him..
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She’s literally grieving someone she’s never met…. She’s taking Marie’s pain she’s the one who has the right to grieve not tophia. So disrespectful she be right next to Marie and talking about Bernadette like she lost her.
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I tried to feel bad for tophia and her situation, I really did.. but the way she’s posting on social media as if it’s a random Tuesday where she’s cooped up in that car is crazy to me.. like miss girl is literally chatting her ass off in the hospital room while her mother and another patient try and get rest.. she’s so inconsiderate to everyone around her it’s crazy.. i hope Marie is able to get some sort of help because we all know tophia isn’t going to provide that
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tophia as someone who’s actually lost a sister fuck off
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I know for a fact the other person in that hospital room with Marie wants to throw a 🩴at her.
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she stays responding & making vids about everything she sees in this community..she really the comments & responds to them ..a few post ago we were all commenting about her & the stillborn baby ..here she goes responding about she she saw n red
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That's how we know she's up in here being a creep, but we know it takes everything in her not to start flapping at the thumbs
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thumbs n gums 😆
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I was going to say gums, but it's the thumbs 👍 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, so she goes right to insta to flap them bahahjdgfv
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I don't see her on insta I come here or youtube to watch her lives flapping her gums 😆
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Sadly, she blocked me 😢 so I now have to do the same RIP to my creeping 🤣🤣🤣
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😆 🤣 of course she would. atleast u can still come here & find out what's poppin..if u want to see her whole lives you can go to youtube to Hats channel
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after hearing this i'm shocked her mama didn't beat the fuck out of her. i would be pissed if my future daughter brought up my still born just to win an argument with strangers online the internet. she deserves to get her ass beat.
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My mom has 5 kids she lost one in her early term b4 having me and maybe it’s sad to her but tf would I be sad im here and i have siblings ( my mother doesn’t even seem that upset she says she has 5 children and she does .TOPHIA IS AN ATTENTION SEEKER wether its a big or small and she’s a liar she’s 32 years old with the brain of a 14 year old ….
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i wish mamachu never told her about her sister
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Thank God we didn't have three slydell children those faces defy logic.imagine 2 girls looking like that my God
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You want siblings why so they have to take care you ?? Um not good reason to want siblings
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“Unalived” sigh…
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That’s a new beg
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She needs to manifest her way into finding a man and stop hovering over her mother
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My mother had 9 kids - 6 alive - 1 still birth and 2 miscarriages. I remember being 8 years old and being told about the still birth when it happened and I cried for a day or two. I forget about it, I don’t really think about it because I never got to meet her and etc. she’s only bringing it up for total utter sympathy. If I wanted to I could do the same thing but I don’t because 1. That’s my mother’s ultimate pain. 2. I never got to KNOW HERRRR! Tophia please focus on your mother because she’s the only person you have left.
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my mom had a stillborn 17 years ago, and i’ve maybe thought about it 10 times my whole life. i feel sorry for my mother and she’s the one who grieved because that was HER baby. i didn’t know them, i never met them, they did not exist in my world-only my moms. so why tf would i grieve someone that i not only do not know, but quite literally had no existence in the world to begin with. this is such a bullshit take from her
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This is the one thing i sort of relate to her and you guys need to give her a little bit of grace with too. If you haven't lost a sibling i dont think you have the right to snark on her on this topic. Losing a sibling before you are born , the grief is there and its valid and its so so so complicated.
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We lost my sister when she was 4 and i came 2 years later. Maybe its different i dont know. Growing up with a child death that just happened as you are growing up is hard, youre lowkey compared to each other. I can only imagine maries grief made her neglect herself more and thus affecting those kids that came. But who really knows.
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well is she wrong??
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she wasn’t even alive when marie gave birth to a stillborn tophia has no real connection to the baby that her mother lost that marie’s trauma not tophias
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she’s still allowed to grieve about it, I mean it would’ve been her sister.
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Talk about it? Sure, but “grieve” about it while next to your injured mother who *just* lost her son in front of her eyes? **NO**.
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yea
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Yes. Lol. What kind of question is this
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How does she personify a person who never existed?