Tophia leaving a comment on DDE’s latest video.
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Definitely has survivors guilt, she was making comments about it on her Instagram story today saying she wishes it was her, etc.
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I can’t even imagine that’s awful.
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She was next to him in the car and saw him shot dead. That’s some insane PTSD causing trauma right there. I truly don’t like her but nobody deserves this.
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This is what pisses me off when people say that she deserved this. Most of us have been around long enough to have stumbled across gore or looked at it out of morbid curiosity and know what a gunshot at point blank range to the head/face can look like. I absolutely cannot imagine that being the last image of my sibling that I would ever have or the screams that must have been coming out of their mother upon seeing her baby gunned down. The trauma and PTSD that her and her mother are going to have is going to be lifelong and unimaginably painful. I would not wish this on my worst enemy.
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I completely agree with you. She was even saying on her Instagram story today that it’s an image she will never be able to get out of her head. She’s already going through so much right now. I don’t think anything people say on the Internet could be worse than what she already went through, so I’m not quite understanding why people are trying to add salt to the wound.
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IMO, even people taking issues with her saying stuff like “we could have been helped sooner”, etc. Like I fucking get her track record and taking issue with it sounding like “y’all should have helped us” but I honestly don’t care. Right now in a situation like this of course you’re going to be thinking about all the would haves could haves should haves, you’re going to be wracking your brain and thinking in hindsight all the ways it COULD HAVE ended up different, and you’re going to be fucking emotional about it. I’d be fucking upset that it could have been all so different, too. Nitpicking the emotional outbursts of active grief is not it to me.
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I hope you get real peace for being so mature and not mocking the incident
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Yeah like most of us will probably never experience something like that I don’t doubt the this is gonna take a long time for her to recover from especially poor Marie this is her child she had to lose.
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I don’t think enough people realize this. He was sitting next to her. His blood had to have splattered on her. That’s insanely traumatic
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you are some of the few mature people in this sub reddit, i hope you find some peace in your life. You deserve it.
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Thank you, it’s sad that you even have to say that. I was never really hater her honestly. I would be more mad if she had kids involved, but if someone wants to ruin their own life it’s not my job to hate her for that. Most people say they’ll start liking her if she gets a job and gets off the internet so that’s just proves they really don’t care about any allegations bc why would her working make you like her. Honestly it just doesn’t make sense to be angry at someone who put themselves in this situation. She’s reaping the consequences choosing not to work by being homeless so who cares
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Yeah sadly this is what I got from this
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finally found some mature people on this sub
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As a new generation raised on influencers and Internet personalities, it's interesting to see the grieving process between siblings and the mutual love of fandoms. RIP Donald. Hope he is drifting around in his dream car up there 🙏
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that’s sad
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When I lost my mother I found myself almost compulsively writing about her in comment sections of things she would have liked, or things that reminded me of her. She’s working through grief in a way that’s recognizable to me, so I hope she continues to work through her feelings and thoughts tbh
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This is really sad. Cant imagine the pain her and her mom are going through atm
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No parent should have to bury a child. It's not supposed to work that way. I pray that her and Mama are able to get their relationship and life figured out and be more "real" with one another. Get Toph into therapy/counseling and some lifeskill training. This is the kind of thing you wouldn't wish on your worst enemy, know what I mean? The average person couldn't possibly dislike someone so much that you would want anything like this to happen.... I daresay many of us wouldn't want this to happen on Loyd St either
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my heart is really hurting for her :(
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Awe they opened the gift he sent them and made a video
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Where?
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I never thought I’d actually use the word sweet and Tophia sentence but this is genuinely so sweet and sad at the same time.
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:( she didn't deserve to lose him so soon. i truly do feel sorry for her.
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Awe this actually made me tear up🥹
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She's really hurting for her brother right now. :/
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this breaks my heart :(, nobody deserves this pain
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Man, this is just really sad, but it's sweet at the same time. I hope she's going about indulging in some of his interests in a healthy way and that she's coping ok outside of what we've seen. It can be a pretty good way of keeping a loved one's memory alive
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She said she wish it was her in the drivers seat. I felt that she wanted to protect her little brother. They seemed to have a pretty good relationship. She’d always bring him up and I’m sure them living in the car together brought them closer. Very tragic and sad.
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I think it’s kind as she’s trying to honor her brother. Regardless of however you feel personally, just give her the grace she needs, the same grace she probably feels she doesn’t deserve at the moment due to the guilt. Maybe, this tragedy will bring her to a spot where she no longer wants to live a no mad life - she’ll see that having a job, having your own home and treating others kind are what’s really important in life. Most of all, a lot of people suffer from survivors guilt when they feel they don’t deserve to live the life that their loved one no longer can - she’s in a really vulnerable spot and I worry she may do something that she can’t undo.
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Grammar plz she is sounding like my deaf Neice
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😒you can’t be serious
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check your own grammar then, it’s spelled Niece not neice. Looks like u and ur niece both lack something
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Your grammar’s not much better. It’s niece not neice 😐
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Damm I got served
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I take that back my Neice has better punctuation skills my bad
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🤣🤣🤣
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Sounds like she's trying to get a free visit and a YouTube video out of it. She's desperate for fame.
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i actually think this one is a genuine response from her loss
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I’d like to think so but no it’s for something free.
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that doesnt really matter, it is a response/tribute to her brother
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idkkkk i’ve seen people do this in youtube comments all the time. maybe i’m just trying to give her the benefit of the doubt but. 🤷🏾♀️ i think she really just wanted to pay tribute to her brother and try to find some kind of comfort by watching the videos he knew he loved, especially given her situation and all.
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yall would find ANY reason to hate on her rn. She's grieving, and i know exactly how it feels and it's miserable
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She literally wished death to people on her live.
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Man, shut the fuck up. I hate tophia as much as the next person but she lost her brother, have some respect. People grieve in different ways.
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Absolutely and it was my first thought. Sorry you’re being downvoted for stating the obvious.
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It’s really unfortunate it sounds like to me she’s feeling some guilt whether it be survivors guilt or not and is genuinely just trying to pay tribute to him. I hope ppl can take a break from dissecting everything she says and does even if it comes off as out of touch, she has a long road of healing ahead of her and I think any awful commentary could lead to a bad situation considering how fragile she is right now.