Tophia saying it should’ve been her instead of brotherchu

r/tophiachutiktok • by Acceptable-Hat9396 • Mar 21, 2025 11:09 pm

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gumdope • Mar 21, 2025 11:38 pm Share • 157

She’s only concerned with the death of her siblings because it causes her additional suffering she doesn’t actually care about what they went through
1. 1RegalBeagle • Mar 22, 2025 1:26 am Share • 123
  
  It’s the narcissist reaction to death.
  
  -look how this affects me
  
  -Zero empathy
  
  -Attention seeking
  
  -Narcissistic injury (I have lost something, it could have been me etc)
  
  -angry outbursts, blaming others
  
  -no real emotion, moves on quickly.
2. zachhoepfer • Mar 22, 2025 1:09 am Share • 48
  
  Dude be real, how would you feel after just eating a cheesesteak 5 days after your brother just died?
New_Resource8654 • Mar 22, 2025 1:43 am Share • 82

"When my mom told me what happened" lmfao Tophia dipped from that vehicle after a microsecond of danger. Grabbed her phone but not her mother
Extension_Impact_571 • Mar 22, 2025 2:10 am Share • 67

She doesn't rlly think this lmao all performative
1. Significant_Meat_421 • Mar 22, 2025 7:21 am Share • 16
  
  1000%
PanhandlersPets • Mar 21, 2025 11:59 pm Share • 51

I feel bad that she has nobody to talk to but she did that. You cannot spit in everyone's face all the time and then expect people to still be there in the bad times.
Various-Entry3305 • Mar 21, 2025 11:26 pm Share • 26

Survivors guilt. Not uncommon unfortunately
1. heartshapedbookmark • Mar 22, 2025 8:08 am Share • 24
  
  I don’t feel like she can actually have guilt, especially survivors guilt. She’s most likely a narcissist and while they can feel guilt, it’s a twisted version of guilt. Usually their guilt is self preservation - personal loss (no longer having his income or cars) or the “guilt” is to maintain her image as in she knows she SHOULD feel these negative emotions like guilt, grief, sadness so she’s playing the part of a grieving sister.
  
  I’m not a doctor so I could be totally wrong and she does feel genuine guilt but from what she’s shown us & how she’s handling this situation, I genuinely just don’t think she feels survivor guilt. I mean look at how quickly she went from a teary “it should’ve been me, I wish I didn’t have to go through this” to “it sucks, this is too hard” - she bounces around from crocodile tears & a “sad” voice to her normal voice. She’s not talking about what her brother or mother experienced, it’s all “me, me, me” 🫠
New_Resource8654 • Mar 21, 2025 11:37 pm Share • 25

Kinda hard to disagree lol
Special-Ad6900 • Mar 22, 2025 4:25 am Share • 13

Well.
1. tophiachutiktok-ModTeam • Mar 22, 2025 8:58 am Share • -9
  
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ittybittyange1 • Mar 22, 2025 8:01 am Share • 12

Hmmm.

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adnoroc • Mar 22, 2025 12:48 am Share • 11

Yeah. I agree
1. babyhibiscus2 • Mar 22, 2025 1:09 am Share • 17
  
  Marie and Donald would’ve been SO much better off
  1. ittybittyange1 • Mar 22, 2025 8:02 am Share • 9
    
    They'd actually be able to have a place to live. He did whatever he could to keep those two taken care of when he was alive.
  2. tophiachutiktok-ModTeam • Mar 22, 2025 8:58 am Share • -10
    
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INeedAMedKit • Mar 22, 2025 6:43 am Share • 8

Donald Jr could've maybe had a normal life if that was the case.
1. tophiachutiktok-ModTeam • Mar 22, 2025 8:58 am Share • -11
  
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wonderer89 • Mar 22, 2025 8:26 am Share • 1

So did i
1. tophiachutiktok-ModTeam • Mar 22, 2025 8:57 am Share • -5
  
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Significant_Meat_421 • Mar 22, 2025 7:21 am Share • -4

I'm fairly new here.how did her other sibling die and when