Tophia’s a victim?

r/tophiachutiktok • by mysteriouslygrins •

For context, yes, I’m “fruit loop”.. the one who commented this. But overall, i’m just sick of these Tophia defenders taking everything I said out of context. All i said in the comment thread that we shouldn’t victimize Tophia over the circumstances that SHE created herself. I never said we were not allowed to sympathize with her and be respectful because she lost her brother. But ffs, as someone who was diagnosed with autism at a young age, I’m sick and TIRED of people excusing her intellectual disability as an excuse on why she can’t get her shit together. IDK, maybe my wording’s not right, but what are you’re guys’ thoughts on this?

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  1. Drezzon Share • 96

    imagine being dumb enough to defend toph, she was a victim one time, when her brother got killed, her mother injured and she carjacked, but that's it, every single other instance (except papachu doing papachu things) are entirely her own fault

    1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 25

      Papachu is always doing Papachu things he's been on his Papachuing for years 😪

    2. anonymousx97 Share • 12

      HA!

    3. texaspoontapppaa Share • 10
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  2. anonymousx97 Share • 93

    Now anytime I see a tophia related video I hit ‘not interested’. The comments are filled with defenders or sympathizers blaming the internet, can’t stomach it.

    1. Ok_Beginning_963 Share • 26

      Don’t worry she will show her true colors and they will back off. It happens every time.

  3. Negative-Fig9687 Share • 32

    She’s definitely a victim to this horrific crime

    1. mysteriouslygrins Share • 1

      Nope, her brother was.. she survived but the least she can do is seek therapy or something. I know how much she must be struggling right now

      1. oopsiswitchedupagain Share • 38

        Nah she is a victim, this really ain’t it, you can check my comment history, I’m not a tophia fan or defender, but to say she’s not a victim is wild. Whether you like it or not, AT THE VERY LEAST, her domicile was stolen, AT THE VERY LEAST, she was robbed, AT THE VERY LEAST, she was a victim of a carjacking.

        Sure she wasn’t shot, ok but that doesn’t negate the rest of what I just said which is based in truth and facts, not emotions, or sympathy/empathy.

        1. mysteriouslygrins Share • 16

          Yes, she was a victim of the carjacking incident but the rest of the stuff provided from that screenshot, were all caused by HER. It just makes me feel iffy how people wanna treat this woman like she’s some kind of angel or something

          1. oopsiswitchedupagain Share • 7

            Yes, I agree with that, if she would’ve gotten a job, and provided motivation to her brother as well, by leading by example, I believe they would’ve lived a wonderful life, but alas she wants to be famous so bad. People will find out on their own, but rn talking shit abt her is just gonna make US look like evil/malicious people, when in reality, I think I can speak for most of us, I would love to see tophia succeed, I want to see her succeed, I want to see her work to better her situation, and become a good person thru accountability from her own self. I want to see her mom and dad living their golden years out with their children (unfortunately not going to happen now) taking care of them, and being kind to them.

            But rn tophia is a victim in this horrible situation along with her mother and brother. I feel this is the most reasonable take anyone can have.

            1. mysteriouslygrins Share • 3

              True true, but overall, i’m just gonna remain neutral about all this and keep it cool. I’m still waiting to see if this will make her change her life around at least

              1. oopsiswitchedupagain Share • 8

                I mean let’s be so fr, she’s not gonna change, I prayed and hoped this would wake her up to decide to make a good decision (I.e getting a job) but it seems now she’s too traumatized to get a job (according to her IG story.) I don’t see her improving in the slightest 😔, just another excuse and crutch to be used later down the line

          2. Negative-Fig9687 Share • 5

            Yea,I can’t disagree w you there…

      2. Negative-Fig9687 Share • 16

        At the very least she’s still the victim of a carjacking…

    2. Maleficent-Oil-795 Share • 1

      her brother and her mom were the victims of it. tophia luckily wasn’t since she could escape.

      1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 2

        Why did you get downvoted for saying she was lucky to escape. 🤦‍♀️

        1. Ksamue16 Share • 7

          Probably for saying her brother and mom was victims of it, when if we’re being real here she was a victim too having to witness that and being pulled out of the car by someone with a weapon, but she just happened to escape

  4. Remote_Background558 Share • 22

    One thing I’ll say is that I doubt any of her enablers have donated a single dollar or cared about her when she got evicted from the apartment.

  5. cronenber9 Share • 16

    The doxxing could be prevented if she just stopped making videos and entertaining people who don't like her (everyone)

    1. Ksamue16 Share • 1

      It seems that way, but I think some of the people in the dc were calling every single shelter that one time she got off the internet for like a month just to find out what shelter she was at to get her kicked out.

  6. anotheroneokay Share • 15

    tophias is a victim of 2 things. witnessing her brother murdered and having to be raised by those shitty ass parents

    1. mysteriouslygrins Share • 6

      yup that’s practically it..

    2. perfect_fifths Share • 3

      Yuuuup

  7. Responsible_Emu_5228 Share • 10

    these people are weird asf lmfaoo (not you obvi.) what is with their moral superiority complex? 😭 assuming you grew up on tiktok & lack empathy for not defending her into the ground. people have many reasons to not defend nor sympathize with her. this situation is very complicated, given tophia's history and her responses to the situation. you don't have to sympathize, defend, nor empathize with her and i'm tired of people forcing everyone who doesn't to. also why do they always bring up the "tophia's disabled!" argument? 😭 ..so what? disabilities are not an excuse for everything. god i fucking hate tiktok

  8. Ok-Bunch-2736 Share • 2

    Oop

  9. B40H Share • 2

    The defenders are dumber than her

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