Tophia’s Go fund me
I just went on GoFundMe and I saw Sophia’s personal one that she created for herself as much sympathy I have for her mother and Donald Junior rest in peace. I don’t wanna sound like a jerk, but I really don’t want to support her personally. I mean she’s already went on the Internet, blaming us for the tragedy that’s happened even though many of us provided her resources to get her and her family off the streets, do you think I’m wrong for not wanting to do that? I’d rather just donate to the one that the car meet friends had set up because it looks like they have good intentions, but she’s stating that her personal GoFundMe is to help rebuild rebuild what There was really nothing to rebuild and she said she wants to get a car to transport her and her mother around I just don’t want to feel like I’m a jerk for not wanting to support because I’ve been in many of her lives where she said some pretty nasty stuff about her followers and other people. Am I heartless and cold for feeling like she’s actually not gonna do better even if she gets the money?
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I wonder what she’ll spend the money on
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a patty melt
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LOL
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A lifetimes worth of
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Kendrick Lamar tix, like 55 hot topic tshirts, fresh crocs, 800 patty melts and 20 Labubus. And I think she’ll go back to rebuilding her physical media collection of $1 CDs as a tribute to Donald.
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Comic con is in 11 months
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Let’s be real—this is a blatant cash grab. The original fundraiser already met its goal, so whatever she’s running now is just a personal money grab, plain and simple. And based on her past behavior, we all know exactly how this is going to play out.
If you work hard, pay your own bills, and support your family or significant other, and you still donate to this nonsense, then congratulations—you just got played. She doesn’t need financial support. What she needs are actual community or state-assisted resources that ensure she isn’t just handed free money to waste while continuing to make the same bad choices.
Let’s not forget: she ended up homeless again by choice, even after people donated their hard-earned money to keep her off the streets where her brother was murdered. And instead of using that help wisely, she decided to take the money and go to a convention. Now she’s back, asking for more, expecting people to fall for the same sob story.
There is zero reason to feel sympathy here. She’s going to do whatever she wants with the money—just like before—and then turn around and complain about her situation. If you still choose to donate, that’s on you. But at this point, there’s no excuse for being this gullible.
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Fr, people have to stop being so simpathetic to the point they are absolutely guillible and naive
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My favorite is "Don't you have any empathy?" Yes, I do to the situation, but I'm a grown adult and not stupid. They are all just repeating themselves, following mindlessly to the pack and not using their brains, and I feel most that have donated didn't donate for Tophia but for themselves to make themselves feel better
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Tbh I donated a really small amount cause 1 I’m poor, but 2 I’ve been watching since the apartment era, and I feel I owe it to her for all the hours of content she’s provided. I listen(Ed) to her loves to clean and since she hasn’t been streaming I’ve been kinda at a loss of how to be functional without the yapping. But also because Donald didn’t deserve to die, and I donated before the goal was raised numerous times
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Donating money to a GoFundMe for someone who flat-out refuses to work—especially after they already wasted the help meant to keep them off the streets—is absolutely insane. And when you are struggling financially too? That’s just self-sabotage. Why on earth would you give away money that you need? No amount is acceptable if you yourself aren't financially stable. How could you allow yourself to feel bad for someone who entitled and lazy to the point that you give them your hard earned money? And Donald Jr was also a alleged pedo. Like come on....
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It was 5$… and a lot of assumptions were mentioned in your post and I’m not gonna get in to them, but they’re not correct. I donated before the goal was raised to help lay Donald to rest, end of story. If she squanders the hundreds people sent to her, that’s not my business. Plain and simple. I feel like y’all are allowing the hate to fester so bad within y’all that it’s really unreasonable.
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it looks like she portrays gluttony and greed if they were ingridients for a recipe of a disaster of a being.
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that gofundme reached the goal then upped the goal
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I hate when people do this, it’s extremely tacky IMO
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I hope she will show receipts of how the funds are spent. If I send money to go towards a funeral, I want it to go towards the funeral. Not DoorDash, not makeup, none of that.
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We all know she’s not gonna show any type of proof that all the money went towards his funeral
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Good! Then people will learn who she really is and the more people know, the better. Let them spend their money, that’s on them
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doubt they learn anything if they were naive enough to donate in the first place
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I mean they said it’s their money and they’ll spend it how they want, it’s all up from there *shrugs*
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Maybe with enough social pressure to do the right thing? I guess it’s never stopped her in the past though. I’d feel safer donating to the go fund me his friends set up if anything honestly
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That’s sad when you trust a car club over his own sister…I feel the same way though
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Unfortunately the ones who are donating are only doing so because they don’t know how poor Tophia really is when it comes to making sound financial decisions. The ones donating are the people who saw the news, read the comments and thought ‘oh my god let me help this poor sweet soul, she obviously has nobody or no one’ and there’s a reason for it. 🤦🏻♀️
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I definitely see that..we all know she is gonna squander that money..I won’t be surprised to see her flex party melts BTS tickets make up she doesn’t know how to use prob another Xbox and another switch..I’m sure she isn’t gonna use any of that money for a hotel or shoes or clothes you know the stuff that would be way more needed than BTS tickets..oh let’s not forget another signed Funko pop from the voice of sponge bob or some fudge lol
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Tophia is going to have a lot of new eyes and they’re already turning on her. She’s gonna blow whatever money she is donated (the car community has done more for Donald Jr in the past god knows how long than Tophia ever did. I’ve been rewatching old lives and omg I listened to her telling people ‘people should come pull up to our car, albq is ‘scaaary’ they’ll get a surprise’ and now she’s saying she was telling us all she needed help sooner. Ugh it’s just a cycle.
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Unfortunately there are lots of family dynamics like this that exist
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No. She will never do the right thing. She never cares what people think about her either.
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True
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I feel like she’s gonna get at least 15k-20k out of this😭
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and it’s all gonna go towards the next comic con and DoorDash orders
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Before all this happen didn't she want to go to a concert?
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kendrick and sza 💀
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I disagree, people who are newly exposed to her always feel bad for her because of the hate she receives and the trolls making it worse. But it doesn’t take long for them to realize on their own, which is why I don’t see why people volunteer information and try to convince to dislike Tophia. People don’t need convincing. There’s no need—Tophia will do that on her own, just give it time.
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And it already happened to me, before having sympathy, but as time goes by… Tophia is slowly exposing herself. I already felt regret by donating to her.. I'm sorry... 🙁😞
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Don’t feel regret for doing what you thought in your heart was right. If the receiver of the good deed was nothing to cry home to mama about that’s on THEM not you boo! You did a good thing because you have a heart, and it ends there. All my love 💕
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Thank you so much for your encouraging message, ma'am/sir. I really appreciate it. I really am.. Now I won't make the same mistakes twice, me and my older brother are going to donate to Donald Jr.'s car friends.. Thank you so much again for this encouraging message. ♥️♥️♥️
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Your welcome! I’m a ma’am (lol) makes me feel old. And this speaks volumes to your character in great ways! We can *not* like someone and simultaneously show kindness when they are in need. I wouldn’t kick her while she’s down, that’s in bad taste and simply not my character (to each their own) but she is who she is and that won’t ever change.
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"People change, and not everyone will, because you cannot change people who are not willing to change"
> Yeah, I got you there, ma'am. Well then excuse me, I am going to cook for my family. I just want to leave messages here and there, and thankfully now I know WHO to donate.. After all everyone has their own rights to react, I feel sympathy for Tophia, of course. Who wouldn't?? But not sympathy for the way SHE handles it. There are plenty of ways to handle your way around social media, but please be careful about what you say. Words are meaningless without actions, so "be careful what you say. Protect your life, a careless talker destroy themselves." Tophia is aware of what her situation is. It is just depends on HOW she handles it.. And thank you again ma'am ♥️♥️♥️
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I don't know about yall but I have a very bad feeling about this. Tophia is basically manipulating people now. From posting ig stories about " you shouldn't donate to this, that ...donate to the ones I approve only" if this go fund me she specially made gets any higher that 1k I'm reporting it . You can't change my mind. She will get plenty from the one Donald's car meet friends made. She's teaching at this point. Instead of begging for donations maybe get a job?
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Yall don’t donate to her gofundme. The one that Donald’s friends made to pay for his funeral has already raised enough money!
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She will go to that concert in CA “ on my brothers behalf” wow Marie doesn’t like it when Tophia scams but I wouldn’t message her right now. Odds are she knows nothing about it!!??? There were 2 concerts but watch what happens.
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Don’t donate to this one
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I feel like she’ll probably reach the 4k if she posts it on TT and/or cries again like she did in her story.
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What a damn shame
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so now there's 2gfm for 4k each ...interesting
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The one by his friends was raised. Last I checked, it had over $7k on that one alone.
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hunni , yesterday I saw it was at 10k .. plus hers now 2 ..shes gunna live large now
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Oh, my. Thank you for letting me know! I mean, I hope they’re able to have a decent funeral for Donald, but I just see it ending badly. She’s going to expect them to hand ALL of it over to her. I also think she shouldn’t even be allowed to put up another GFM for a funeral when one is already up & has surpassed its goal. But it is what it is. She’ll blow through it & be begging for more eventually.
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I completely agree wit you 💯. She's going to catch feelings if they don't hand it over, indeed. she knows nothing about funeral arrangements.so them helping and doing it themselves is not a bad idea.. they have that gfm with the 10k, and she also has one for herself ..go figure, huh 🤔 no need for two shit..10k is enough for them
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Yeah I’m def not, cuz I’m not stupid!
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She put it as Donald's funeral costs because she knows people will donate to that ... I see you Tophia. Get a job.
Those donations will not sustain you and you will end up back right where you are now... No one donate to that GoFundMe.
She needs to ride the struggle bus like we all have to
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That’s the one his friends made
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Nope, this is one she made herself I believe
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The car show guys posted on their insta story saying it was them who wanted to create the gofundme for the family while they took time to grieve so they didn’t have to worry about it atm.
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This exact one? Hm
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If this is the one that has over 6.5k dollars on it yeah that’s the one for the funeral expenses. There’s so many going around bc people are trynna scam impressionable people out of money which is really effed up. I think about 2 or 3 days ago she said people are getting scammed and to not donate to any go fund me unless it was the one created by his friends at the car shows or other ones she verified. But so far she only verified the one his friends made. So people need to be aware bc if they donated to the other ones they just got scammed
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This is the one tophia made. It has 85$ currently and a goal of 4K. The one Donald’s friends made has a pic of just Donald jr only….
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She also said to not donate to anything she didn't approve. She was pretty much saying yeah ... Donate to that one but she needs money too. She made one and is saying it is for the funeral. I saw that one. Tons of people donated ..this isn't the same one
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Nope. She made this one. She even said she was going to make one. I don't know why she is saying it is for a funeral. In her live she said it was so she could start over.
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Why do they……..look like that…??????
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Maternal 🧬 genetics
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Ancestors angered a wizard, whole bloodline was cursed. Many such cases.
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At least the bloodline will end with tophia... I don't think anyone is that desperate
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the chances are low, but never zero. i mean look at mamachu
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But it wasn't as ugly as tophia in the past
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And with her beard growing, she will not have an easy time getting pregnant
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Very fucking odd genetics and possibly something going on in the family tree🤷♀️. Or a syndrome like FAS, noonan, etc.
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I mean the mom looks like a pretty normal old lady.
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lmfao, u got downvoted for saying that 🤣 I tell ya u just gotta laugh
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I feel like people on social media don’t know what old women look like anymore without tons of Botox. All good, I feel sorry.
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I hate her
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Same but if I said this 3 days ago I’d get called a sociopath loser.
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I *did* get called a sociopath that's fucked in the head ☺️
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I just kept my mouth shut for a couple days lol. this sub was chaotic enough with fighting and people pointing fingers/ gaslighting you if you didn’t feel sympathy. I don’t have the mental health to argue with anyone over it eithurrrr 🧌. Cool, If I’m a bad person for not feeling bad for tophiachu then I think I’ll live. Not going to act morally superior over her.
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That lol. Why is everyone so upset over an alleged abuser and pedophile being killed. And I’m saying alleged very lightly since there is plenty of evidence out there…
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Omg can she like get a job or something? She has to realize that she cannot live her entire life depending on donations and that scamming has consequences, you are blatantly stupid if you decide to donate to her.
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I don’t really think she could get hired for much honestly. Can you imagine her at a job interview? She needs a social worker and maybe some state intervention at this point. She’s so ill prepared and too lazy to actually function at an adult level.
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I bet she won't even pay the hospital bill from it...
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Well.. yes 😃
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soooo which one is going towards funeral funds now considering the other one met its goal?
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There’s like two other gfms out there that she has verified and they’re more than enough for Donald’s funeral costs she’s gonna use this and milk it until she has nothing left again 🤦🤦🤦
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Mad greedy. Are the cash apps and paypals she’s getting it enough? And she’s gonna get whatever’s left of her brothers GFM.
This chick is the biblical definition of gluttony
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That’s crazy. The OG one met its goal, so she’s literally using her brothers name on this one to profit for herself.
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So...do you think she'll accuse his friend of not giving them the money if he pays directly for the burial?
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I have a feeling that gfm from his friends is gunna end up in drama due to her . I have a huge feeling all this is gunna be a disaster
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I just think she will get mad if he doesn't hand it all to her directly so she can spend it how she wants. If he's smart he'll make payments directly to the funeral home first.
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I wouldn’t be surprised if she had beef with them but only time will tell
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it happened multiple times where something bad happened —-> people feel bad——> she asks for help ( money) —-> she spends it in something totally different than what she told people about —-> people get mad.
it’s always been like this and it’s crazy to me that people are still donating to her rn even tho this is the worst situation she’s been in -
Revolting, we all know what she’s going to use it up on. All that money donated is going to go in an instant and she’s gonna be right back on her ass.
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She doesn’t even know how to drive…
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I’m 100% not donating, knowing her she’ll just blow it on makeup and junk food instead of anything that would actually help them. I feel terrible that this tragedy happened but I will not help them especially since she’s already accusing us of being at fault for his death and that the friends GFM already hit the goal. She’s a scammer (although not a good one) and I don’t believe this will change that.
Anyone who’s gullible enough to donate really needs a reality check, they just wasted their money and basically bought her a new Betty boop makeup palette and some hot topic shirts.
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Oh, can’t wait for her next crowd funded Temu haul.
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she’s back to posting random bs on her stories, so i think the sympathy is getting to her. she’ll be fine.
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Tophia will never change. She will use donations to buy worthless crap and will never learn to better her life. I wonder at this point if she’s even cognitively able to do so. Who knows. She really needs to be made a ward of the state at this point. She is not capable of making any sound decision for herself or her mother.
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this is def a cash grab since her brothers friends surpassed the goa& she isnt getting any
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She’s going to milk this for every little drop and I hope y’all don’t fall for it.
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Didn’t the go fund me his friend made already reach their goal? Why is another go fund me being made i am so confused?
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The friends that set up the original GoFundMe had already surpassed the initial goal of like 4500 and now they’re trying to reach a goal of 10k, but Tophia has set up a personal GoFundMe for herself so she can rebuild her life
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Did she mention getting a actual job aswell
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Yes! Idk why she titled it funeral costs they already got that
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Thank you that’s what I was confused about. It was titled “Donald’s funeral costs” So I thought it was another go fund me for something they already had.
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oops nvm I just read the whole thing. it’s for her car and license and stuff I guess. My bad
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Lol someone who literally lived in a car for months is now claiming they are finally going to learn to drive.
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Go ahead and let them donate and be scammed. Then they’ll cry about it lol. I really wanna see the gullible fall for it.
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If you donate to her over all of the other people in much worse situtations with 0 raised then you gotta reconsider life
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THIS
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I dont want to victim blame but if tophia had actually gotten off her ass and gotten a job/helped her family out all of this couldve been avoided.
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She is full of greed.
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That’s ridiculous she made a new one. I also saw two created by Tophia but I don’t know if that one is legit.
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If you want to donate to this go ahead that’s your prerogative. None of your money will actually go towards helping tophis in anyway shape or form but will provide her momentary satisfaction. If you’re ok with that then be our guest. At the same token have sympathy for her but remember the best thing for here is if she becomes irrelevant. The internet is horrible for her and wellbeing, if you want to help her ignore her and pretend like she never existed.
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Calling it now, she's going to buy something really expensive and stupid and says she needs it for comfort.
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Yes and of course she will brag about it
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Is this real? Did she really actually make this gofundme? Or is someone pretending to be her?
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I’m assuming that the one that I found is her actual one because she did say on her stories that she was making one to rebuild her life it only has about $80 worth of donations and it says it protected so I’m not really sure
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So what you're saying is it's about to be our fault that her gofundme didn't make much. Since it couldn't possibly be her deplorable behavior that has turned many people off from wanting to help.
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They were very careful with the hat cropping I see...
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is this actually her gfm or is it an impersonator using her name? on the [gfm set up by donald jr’s friends,](https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-for-donalds-slydells-funeral-expenses?attribution_id=sl:61b2d55b-a230-40e7-9d70-1a48368aa17b&lang=en_US&utm_campaign=fp_sharesheet&utm_medium=customer&utm_source=qr_code) they have stated that they will use any additional funds to help the slydells out during this time. if anyone is reading this, please donate to the one embedded in blue instead.
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[This is her GFM page](https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-for-donald-sydells-funeral-costs?qid=30d3ee887dc2228222384569f2d67305) and I reported it.
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No way she has the nerve to call us “broke bit$&es like the day before on live and then do this?
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My goodness smh
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No.
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You are absolutely not a jerk. I've been saying this since an hour or two after the incident happened. She's going to milk this tragedy for money and sympathy when we know how she is with money. She has scammed and used money that she's gotten in the past for ludicrous things like makeup in conventions and what not. She has absolutely zero concept of financial responsibility and she's going to end up in a worse place than she is now if that's even possible.
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Honestly in the state of our economy right now tophia is just taking advantage of other poor people because she’s too prideful to get a job and live in a homeless shelter for a while and I don’t think anyone should feel guilty for not wanting her help her because she does nothing to help herself
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I just now found it lol
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Even if you're interested in donating to her i would caution against giving to this one since she hasn't posted about it/claimed it was her
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There are 2 with her name on them.
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A car to drive her Mom around? She can’t drive and doesn’t even have a permit. She’s gonna buy a car and who’s gonna drive it? It’s gonna sit like the ones her brother gave her and then he gave to ppl that could actually use them.
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Can’t we mass report it as a scam?
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There is plenty of validity in your concern dude.
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Nobody donate to her!!! I’m sure she was glad as fuck that Donald died and was immediately thinking of making a gofundme. I’m sure that’s another reason why detectives supposedly told her to stay OFF the internet, she was probably asking how soon she could make one.
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If she spends money on Doordash, makeup, thrift store clothing rather than her brothers funerals costs. It would've been heartbreaking and disrespectful. I understand that you don't want to be jerk, but the way Tophia moves is just very irrational. There is no disrespect on the tragedy on her brother. It's my opinion
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Maybe they are trying to get as much money as they can. The funeral on top of medical bills and repairs for the car. I don’t know, I’m just trying to give them the benefit of the doubt but that seems like the most sense. Plus it doesn’t sound cheap
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car is probably totaled tbh. Sounds like Donald (RIP!) would buy very cheap cars because he knew people who would fix them up for cheap
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Tophia could become a CNA. Many vocational training and rehab place through the state are free for people like Tophia that can’t afford to pay for the course. Just a though if cleaned up her hygiene and she was taught how to properly clean ya know there and basic life skills. I think she could do it.
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Look at the way she treats her mom tho , her in nursing seems like a disaster 😭
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No she can’t because she’s lazy and incompetent. I said my condolences but just like I’ve done with family that passed, I give them my blessing and commence to talking shit on they name cause they wasn’t shit to begin with. TUH
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No she can’t. She has horrible hygiene.
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oh hell no. she cant even take care of her elderly mother....
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There is absolutely no way. She would never be trusted with any member of my family, that's for sure.
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Are y’all really monitoring the go fund me? Oh nah LOL
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Nobody’s monitoring the GoFundMe its just weird that she’s creating an additional one to help with funeral funds and rebuilding her life when his friends already made one
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It’s Tophia! We can’t possibly be surprised, right? She’s will look for any way to not do anything with a damn.
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I hope no one is stupid enough to donate. She’s scamming people atp. The original fundraising Donald jrs friends created made its goal so tophia doesn’t need this one. Unfortunately, now she’ll get her pity donations.