Tophia’s story talking about what happened, blaming people for getting kicked out of previous motels, and more

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  1. Micheymiyo Share • 325

    “yall never want to take any accountability for your actions”

    i fear that the call in coming from inside the house

    1. Extension-Chicken737 Share • 86

      That phone has been ringing for YEARS

    2. detray1 Share • 22

      Inside the Chumobile

      1. Psychological_Ad6347 Share • 21

        Rip the ChuMobile

    3. UsualSuspect0108 Share • 2

      Inside the car*

  2. Midnout26 Share • 179

    i hate her thought process of “if i get a job, you’ll just call my job and get me fired!!!”

    girl, that’s when you stop posting online. you don’t need to share every little thing about your life, including your employer (not that she’ll ever get one)

    1. XRLboom Share • 41

      I don't think she'd be able to get a job even if she quit posting online. She's extremely unhygienic, rude, and has ZERO accountability.

      1. PreparationMaster160 Share • 21

        I agree with those things but these are also the statements that enable her to never try.

        Those are all life skills she needs to learn regardless. She needs a job, it’s the society we live in.

      2. Independent-Swan1508 Share • 4

        i think ur right i dont think she will ever get a job. she keeps saying how tiktok is her job and that she can pay for multiple houses rn and that she gets thousands of dollars every single day i think her head is so far up her ass she truly thinks this. it's scary how she depends on her family more than anything.

        1. XRLboom Share • 3

          It's the cyraxx effect. You have a few people that start talking to you or you make a miniscule amoimt of money and all of a sudden you have millions of fans and you're making more money a month than the majority of the country.

    2. AdLanky4864 Share • 4

      she’s just using that as an excuse to NOT work. It’s her fault that she ended up homeless living in the streets. She had many wake up calls, but still continues to make excuses to be lazy. And even if she does get a job, why would she even tell the internet? she needs to lock the fuck in

  3. sweetdeepkiss Share • 171

    “I have ptsd and trauma and ptsd and trauma and trauma and I am traumatized my brother just passed away and it’s everyone’s fault this happened because you didn’t enable my homelessness due to refusal to work” - Tophia at age 58 living in a 2015 Honda Accord

  4. NoDot7856 Share • 163

    Welp this didn’t take long

    ![gif](giphy|pK6k4BNalmx44CQj3v)

  5. XxBigchungusxX42069 Share • 157

    Lmfao she's such a joke, like bitch we was saw what squid posted, they got kicked out because they are filthy and then went to comicon instead of paying rent that caused them to be homeless...How is any of that the internet's fault

    1. Micheymiyo Share • 62

      same thing happened when they had the apartment like they were backed up in like 3K of rent , like what made her think she was going to continue to keep living there???

    2. AnnieApple_ Share • 19

      Not to mention she would yell and shout and the neighbours complained.

    3. TOOLfourtysixand2 Share • 17

      I argued with this chick on tt who made EVERY damn excuse for our baby beluga. She wouldn't let her take blame for anything. I was like fuck it! I'm done

    4. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 17

      Come January shoes got over 4k in donations for the holidays and new year. She called it "life-changing" and squandered it. That's why I fear this large amount she will want more to purchase a whole home for herself and her mom, and it won't happen. The money will be gone in no time 💔

      1. XxBigchungusxX42069 Share • 2

        Wtf.....what a moron

  6. meowing_Lilith Share • 119

    She refused to get a job since getting fired from Dunkin's but, somehow, it is our fault...

    1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 22

      And she wasn't even relevant enough for it to be anyone's fault, like, yes, toph, we told you not to shower and steal food

    2. ketchupROCKS Share • 8

      She prob only worked there a couple days

  7. Minimum-Ad-263 Share • 106

    she is her own worst enemy smh

    1. AnnieApple_ Share • 26

      Yeah the trolls went back in time and got her fired

  8. GiornoGiovanna_9 Share • 103

    Truly the nail in coffin.... All the support she got has gone right out the window...

    1. planethoneyy Share • 65

      Nah she’ll always have suckers that fall for her shit

    2. tophiachuqueen Share • 54

      I think her only support right now will be from the new people who discover her and will feel bad for her without doing a full on search on her.

    3. funhay12 Share • 3

      I have been on the fence about donating the same amount I donated to the brothers friends gofundme to Tophias own one but these posts she is making is making it hard to go send another £50 to her. I just hope the friends use the money and pay for the funeral with it themselves and don't give it to her before its paid. I really think I'm going to pass on sending her the money coz she is just the same as ever she was and still doesn't want to change or better her life.

  9. riotgrrlanna Share • 100

    1st of all: why does she think we’d be happy if she died?? literally no one wants that.
    2: she ALWAYSS brings up people’s dead family bcuz of troll comments, she’s trippin😭😭
    3: the internet didn’t cause her to lose the motel, she was kicked out because they didn’t keep up with cleaning, and couldn’t pay rent..
    4: why is it our fault new mexico isn’t safe?? she had EVERY opportunity to have a stable place
    5: People are allowed to think she’s a horrible person AND feel sorry for her
    6: blah blah blah it’s our fault but she begs us for money to pay for her expenses??
    7: as if so many lolcow yts aren’t profiting off of this
    8: people don’t pick on lolcows for no reason lol

    1. tophiachuqueen Share • 16

      I think the first one is she reading the more vile comments on tiktok & other platforms usually from trolls but that’s her fault for going on the internet. She knew people would have this EXACT reaction for what she be saying in live.

  10. Hungry_Armadillo1882 Share • 88

    She said she didn’t want to get a job because then she’d have to go spend $12 at the truck stop to shower for it everyday.

    On the bright side, Donald sr. has been released from jail on his own recognizance 😃

    If Marie can’t sleep, she can ask the nurse for something to help with that. She should take advantage of that while she still has bedside care.

    You’re in a prison of your own making. If you want to be left alone, get off the internet. But you won’t because how would you digitally panhandle? Gosh if only there was a place you could go to collect an income 🤔

    1. msbrook82 Share • 17

      I kno they are the type to not bother the nurse,ask questions, say what's bothering them.. if Marie did say that she would get some type of sleeping aid..especially since she's a violent crime victim.

    2. Appropriate-Bite198 Share • 5

      truckers get so many showers (normally 50 gal of fuel gets a free shower but eventually you get free showers for a month) that we just give them away if asked. i know ive given quite a few showers away. so no she might have to pay here and there but if she asks, shed probably get a free one.

  11. CashFun1227 Share • 80

    She makes it so hard to feel bad for her.

    1. delatierra444 Share • 37

      Her blaming us for how Daniel Larson and world of tshirts ended up is crazy lmfao

      1. Equivalent_Tackle_24 Share • -38

        I can say with complete confidence the internet is 100% why those 2 ended up where they are now bsfr

        1. tiniru Share • 24

          are you new here???????

          1. [deleted] Share • 1

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        2. delatierra444 Share • 14

          Ahhh yes the internet is why she won’t get a car. The internet is why they’re so dirty. The internet is why she didn’t go to a shelter. The internet is why she chose to sleep in a car. The internet is why they didn’t pay their rent. The internet is why her mom nearly died from an asthma attack from sleeping in a car in 20° weather 🥰😍

          1. Equivalent_Tackle_24 Share • 1

            It's concerning for your mental health that you're all THIS invested in this person please seek help

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          2. Equivalent_Tackle_24 Share • -10

            I'm not even talking about her. You're so angry, why? Are you okay?

  12. Tanjir_HOE Share • 70

    I really don’t understand her if the comments are bothering her so much why doesn’t she just take a break? Just leave the Internet for a month or two or if not even a month at least a couple of weeks

    1. msbrook82 Share • 29

      she said herself during the aftermath that she didn't kno how to not post or keep people updated.she also mentioned that she needed to keep ppl informed. basically, she is very much addicted to social media.& doesn't kno how to keep her business/private life to herself .

  13. Limp_Criticism_1947 Share • 70

    “Why do you think I haven’t gone live?”

    Because if you ran your mouth for 1 hour uninterrupted those gofundmes wouldn’t exist.

  14. Extension_Impact_571 Share • 61

    This bitch genuinely pmo sm 😭😭

  15. 111gct Share • 45

    "We had a place we couldve kept that place paid" how could u have kept that place paid if you literally... couldnt keep that place paid?
    Jump back into work? Girl you were never working

    1. xoTiff1912 Share • 10

      Ok. The jump back into work comment pmo off so bad WHAT work 🥴

  16. Gnarsenic Share • 42

    Something very shocking and tragic has occurred not even a full week at this point and it has turned so depressing and sad to full blown sinister and evil. She's going to milk this for *all* it's worth.

  17. ThranduilGirlQueen70 Share • 38

    She's making it so difficult for me to feel bad for her..The only reason they were living in a car was because of THEM! They didn't pay rent, the only one that had a job was her brother. She could've had a job and they could've used that money to pay for a place to live. Why is she blaming others?! No Tophia, you are a grown woman, you don't need TikTok, it would've been so easy to put down the phone and put yourself together.

  18. KindlyDistribution78 Share • 36

    how did she manage to make this whole situation about her? it's like she just throws in maries and donald jrs names so it doesn't sound as self absorbed outloud. her brother DIED in front of her and she just goes and jumps on the interent where supposedly all these trolls and harassers are to do what? i know this sounds harsh but i think deep down in her narcissistic mind she's glad something like this happened just so she can finally get the sympathy she thinks she oh so deserves. unbelievable

    1. Equivalent_Tackle_24 Share • 1

      You think on some level she's glad her brother died? Oh my god?

  19. Select_Medium5147 Share • 33

    Ok this is absolutely getting ridiculous! In her mind she thinks the internet made her lose her apartment and the motel. How the fuck is that possible? It’s well documented that she lost places to live cause they didn’t pay! And her saying she begged for help to get a safe place to stay? When?! All she’s done is brag about making all kinds of money yet her housing woes all boil down to lack of money and refusal to work. Make it make sense please. I truly feel sorry for her losing her brother but it’s preposterous to blame her bad life on the people online it was never up to us to pay her fucking bills.

  20. tophiachuqueen Share • 28

    It’s always the internet this and that, it’s true trolls did call her brothers job but did he get fired ? No he got laid off due to that location closing and a majority of them closing around the area. It’s kinda weird she’s now saying her brother took the majority responsibility for bills when she would be bragging on live saying, “ Tuh Huh I pay the rent , I pay this bill and this bill, no I pay the motel rent.”

  21. lanasj Share • 25

    shes acting like she wasnt filthy as FUCK. she trashed the last hotel she stayed in.. and she couldnt pay the rent. make it make sense

    ![gif](giphy|1r91ZwKcE2J7WhUqrh)

  22. Extension_Impact_571 Share • 22

    oh my GODDDDDD she'd literally rather go on the Internet and complain than GRIEF for her brother's death 😭

  23. Remote_Background558 Share • 21

    What she hates is that people don’t want to bow down to her. And if she’s had enough then get off the internet! It’s time to report her account in hopes of her getting banned once and for all. We are not responsible for her financial wellbeing nor her future. And she has some nerve to call ppl out for making videos but doesn’t go after Aunt Karen for exposing her. She’s homeless because they failed to make payments not because ppl dislike her, like they’ve been place on a do not rent list for a reason. Get a job and seek therapy!

    ![gif](giphy|2YmyLa9YZIIhBCpYTo)

    1. delatierra444 Share • 14

      The fact that she won’t even get off the internet to grieve her brother is so sad. She posts on her ig story like nothing happened

  24. 9alloism Share • 21
  25. fuckapersuasiveessay Share • 21

    I’m kinda over her lol..

  26. delatierra444 Share • 21

    She stays using the “they talked about me first” excuse when majority of the time they don’t even talk about her. They just say something that calls her out on her bs and she takes that as being negative lmao

    1. freshoutthebuffet Share • 10

      The comment could be suggesting she take her mom to the hospital to look into her cough and she’ll turn around and tell us that our mothers are dead or that they’ll soon be dead or something weird

  27. killuaww Share • 19

    Just get tf off the internet for some time tophia omg 😭

  28. weirdgirl1357 Share • 18

    It’s so infuriating as an eldest sister myself with only younger brothers watching tophia barely take accountability barely blaming herself for her own actions and what happened to her brother I don’t care how harsh this sounds she’s a selfish pos she should feel VERY VERY guilty for her brothers death every single day I could never even IMAGINE putting my little brother(s) in a situation where hes homeless with me living in a car and has to provide for me just because I didn’t want to grow up and be an adult it makes me mad how even after he died she refuses to finally better herself she instead uses his death as an excuse to still do nothing like I said it infuriates me as an older sister how little she did for him and all the responsibilities she put on him its so bizarre to me how she blames the internet for her brothers death she barely blames herself if I were her I wouldn’t go a minute without blaming myself I’m not trying to say the murder was her fault my point is her lack of guilt and pointing the blame at others for making them homeless instead of herself shows how much she really cared about her baby brother

    Also a reminder for the defenders SHE IS THIRTY ONE YEARS OLD she is not a toddler her brain finished developing 6 years ago she could have done so much for Marie and Donald and chose not to just out of pure laziness

    1. s-aintt Share • 5

      No, you're right. She doesn't actually feel guilty over anything concerning her brother, she will say she does but her actions doesn't in the slightest.
      You said this very well!

  29. Mungus91 Share • 18

    "I didn't want my brother to have to pay all the bills. I did the best I could."

    No, you actually didn't. You refused to try and work.

  30. fuckapersuasiveessay Share • 16

    Kinda lol’ing at her saying she’s not going back to “work” yet, being her not going live-streaming..😂

  31. ablxke Share • 15

    Get off the internet omg. Mourn your brother in the solitude of your family and friends. It’s what he deserves.

  32. Adept-Result9526 Share • 15

    They need grief counseling. But for *some* reason I doubt that extra cashflow will be used for anything productive and helpful. It’s impossible to feel bad for her anymore. Get well Marie.

  33. Far_Back_7637 Share • 14

    So 3 days.
    3 days for her to turn her brother's death into the internet's fault and a money grab... im actually surprised at the new low.

    1. Successful-Laugh-515 Share • 11

      I’m not

  34. Radiant_Rub4924 Share • 13

    Made myself look stupid really having a little bit of belief in her just faded away more and more

  35. Spiritedawayfan2015 Share • 12

    That “unsafe shelter” would’ve saved Donald Jrs life.

  36. Brilliant_Tax8581 Share • 11

    Any classic literature fans out there? She's starting to REALLY remind me of Lenny from Steinbeck's 'Of mice and men'. You know the rabbits, the farm and he's kinda... 'slow'.

    1. AveD0minusN0x Share • 9

      Don’t be doing Lenny like that yo

      Poor Lenny. Let him have his rabbits and beans and ketchup

      1. Brilliant_Tax8581 Share • 5

        Loved the Malkovich and Sinise iteration.

    2. MeanAd5349 Share • 1

      Omg not Lenny😭😭

  37. Rough_Whole9105 Share • 11

    you do not have to "watch your back" dramatic ass, it was just a carjacking gone wrong, nobody is after you

  38. ThatGirlSel917 Share • 11

    At this point we are all writing the narrative for her. It’s clear she’s taking cues from the comment sections on posts both on TT and here. A lot of the stuff she’s saying with respect to grieving and trauma are coming from comments she’s read. We all know she’s not bright enough to understand grieving and trauma yet she continues to throw out trauma and ptsd which will now and forever be her scapegoat.

  39. anonymousx97 Share • 10

    She must be doom scrolling on here lol

  40. majorasmasked Share • 10

    "I'm gonna step up because people don't believe I'm gonna step up."

    Wow. Way to spite us!

  41. Rough_Whole9105 Share • 10

    shes literally argues like a toddler "they did it first!!"

  42. Ja_Crispy7711 Share • 9

    00:24 she’s the reason she has no place to live not the internet 💀

  43. sillyminou Share • 8

    It bothers me how she said she didn’t want her brother to have to pay for the motel and said she did her best to help . She had every second in that motel to find a job but instead resorted to tiktok for her money. I’m not sure if i’m surprised she still thinks her past actions were right and that she never done anything wrong. Yes she’s going through many things right now but I wish someone was there to tell her to realize not everything should go her way. It boggles my mind how she is still thinking that the internet is to blame for her getting evicted, yes they do harass you, but you also don’t clean the room nor do something productive. If she had a job she would have been out of there. People are genuinely trying to help her with shelter and other resources but she thinks if she took the help then it would mean she was the one in the wrong. I definitely think she has something mentally affecting her to think like this, not in a mean way but it’s obvious she is mentally challenged. I wish someone out there would talk to her and make her come to realize her problems and help her to understand how shes a grown adult and needs to be responsible with herself. If she refuses any help whatsoever then she is just a lost cause.

  44. Rough_Whole9105 Share • 8

    also its very interesting she just "turned on" the tears halfway through a sentence

  45. 27clubdropout Share • 8

    genuinely i’m so disturbed by the way her mind works and the way she speaks about this entire situation i’m actually speechless

  46. Reasonable_Plan_332 Share • 8

    God why couldn't it have just been her instead of Donald.

  47. SympathyHonest5340 Share • 7

    It angers me deeply by how she’s choosing to handle all of this, like various people said here, she makes it EXTREMELY difficult to feel bad for her, a few days ago I felt so incredibly bad for her, she had lost her only source of income and most importantly her brother, and not to mention her mother was shot and injured however I knew this was coming knowing tophia, it’s sad to see that even her brothers death wouldn’t change her and how she behaves, it’s insane to me and I can’t even fathom how she has the audacity to sit here and tell us how wrong WE ARE? tophia.. if it weren’t for “us” you wouldn’t have made so much with that go fund me, how dare you blame us when we were the ones feeling sorry for you, yes there have been some people who have said heinous things about you but a few rotten apples amounts to nothing when it comes to everyone else who has been there to support you during this time, and too add one more thing : actually tophia, the way that we were treating you was a luxury compared to how the other lolcow communities would treat their lolcow, im honestly ashamed by her actions and was expecting this but there was a pang of hope in my heart that MAYBE she’d turn a new leaf, start all over, back away from the internet and find a job, provide for her family BUT NO!! There you have it folks, not even her OWN BROTHERS DEATH can deter her from her old self.

    1. SympathyHonest5340 Share • 2

      Bro sorry about the spelling of tophia my auto correct did it and I didn’t even notice 😭

  48. Advanced-Hour-108 Share • 7

    Just remember, Tophia also took a shit in her hospital room on the floor and called the nurse to clean THAT UP. She’s fucking gross and clearly so, wants her mother’s health to suffer even greater.

    1. maiseymoo789 Share • 2

      she WHAT 😧

    2. MeanAd5349 Share • 1

      No she didn’t…that’s nasty😭🤢

  49. GeminisHorror Share • 6

    Whose y’all, whose we? Cuz I never spoke about her dead relatives but she was allowed to talk about all her viewers dead relatives as a whole? Make it make sense, tub of lard

  50. BlueyBingo300 Share • 6

    She has an LD... thats the only think borderline excusing this.

    People are telling her to get off the internet because of all the negative comments and trolls. Clearly its bothering her... but a lot of people understand that she has nobody so the internet is also her only place to vent. She has every right to grieve how she needs.

    About her dying... I'm sorry to say, but people would have felt bad, but unfortunately would have also felt that it was fate and good for the family. Tophia is holding the family back lots. If it was just Brotherchu and Mamachu, none of their stuff would have ever been online and they possibly could have had a home since Brotherchu actually works.

    Oh my god, shes still blaming other things for her not getting a job... she will never change. Really, she is either not thinking about the future whatsoever or thinks she can live off donations. Seriously... what is going to happen in a year time...? She will be sitting pretty with all these donations and bragging about it while refusing to get a job.

    "They were willing to work with us, but the internet caused us to not have a place"... What is she on? Why is she lying? They kicked her out for not paying rent in apartmentchu. Then in the motel they kicked her out for not paying rent again and trashing the place. The trolls werent in that room with her doing any of that. She did not want her brother paying all the rent... um... he did not pay it anyway he was focused on cars... and um... get a job if you are so concerned??? In saying these lies, I fear newcomers showing remorse for her will eat this lie up.

    If Tophia really felt guilty, she'd change as a person...

    Tophia really is saying she told us that living out in a car was dangerous.... SHE LITERALLY BRAGGED ABOUT LIVING IN A CAR THINKING IT WAS ALL GOOD WHEN PEOPLE TOLD HER IT WAS NOT SAFE.

    Um... people need to bring up shes a bad person when showing empathy because they're cautious of her. This entire vid is a perfect example on why we need to be cautious.

    Shes going to run with this occurrence as an excuse for a long while... She loves abusing the sympathy.

    I'll give it to her that trolls are evil and malicious, they did evil stuff to Larson and Chris Chan... but shes blaming too much on trolls. The trolls were toxic in her online spaces... but they never went to harass her to the extent they did those two.

  51. Apprehensive-Leg-118 Share • 6

    The motel was NOT willing to help them. Does she forget this is all on video of her saying the motel kept giving them more time that day to pay and when they still didn’t told them to leave? ITS ON VIDEO

  52. NaughtyNurse1969 Share • 6

    Wait she did jump out of the car. Why did she say someone “pulled” her out. Speaking on dead relatives, so why didn’t the “live” relatives show up. And Fat azzz you are the reason they were out in the middle of a dangerous area bec you wouldn’t work and contribute so it was all on him.Your “joy was taking away”. Your “paycheck” you mean that produced “joy” bec the money you did gave you didn’t contribute you spent of crap.

  53. NaughtyNurse1969 Share • 6

    “I can’t jump back into work” jump back into what work?

  54. AnnieApple_ Share • 5

    Okay but the people calling Donald’s work trying to get him fired suck.

  55. Spiritedawayfan2015 Share • 5

    Oh so now she’s admitting to be a Lolcow. Before she said she wasn’t one.

  56. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 5

    What does she mean by "basically having it set up"? Can someone help me understand what she means by this?

  57. very-strawberried Share • 3

    It's like she plans when to cue the tears

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  58. freshoutthebuffet Share • 3
  59. Spiritedawayfan2015 Share • 3

    But yet she still won’t get off the internet. And she jumped on the internet immediately after the this traumatic event. She’s addicted to the internet. And here she is back to her old self.

  60. Thinmint_polarbear Share • 3

    ![gif](giphy|LycfkVG4L6x0Y|downsized)

    Literally me rn with this woman

  61. AddressShort9700 Share • 3

    I dislike Tophia, but losing a loved one is not easy. I feel she really needs a break from social media to help her mentally recover and get her life together. All this finger pointing but nothing is being done to change anything and it’s frustrating. Someone had to die for eyes to be opened. Rip DONALD SLYDELL YOU DID ALL YOU COULD 💔🕊️

  62. Independent-Swan1508 Share • 2

    they got kicked out cuz they didn't pay rent for months and they were also disgusting asf it was no one's fault but theirs. and the way she talks smack other peoples dead relatives probably more than i could count she deserves something not death but something else, talking smack bout dead relatives is extremely low and fucked up and it's hard giving her sympathy when she just a horrible person.

  63. True_Activity_7645 Share • 2

    I wonder if she’s talking about squid or just the toph community as a whole..

  64. Icy_Annual_8914 Share • 2

    I just think people should leave her alone. Don’t even watch her. She’s never going to have a “normal” thought process. She needs to grow up and learn how to support herself

  65. One-Sugar-7179 Share • -19

    Prayers for tophia fr