Why People Don't Like You
Girl I hope you read this from the bottom of my heart. You are well aware of your haters, as is your mother. But, I'm gonna leave Marie out of the rest of this and talk directly to you. People don't dislike you because you're an ugly big back, people dislike you because you *actively choose poverty.* I have been poor. I have lost my house. I have been in those positions for reasons outside of my control. Millions of people have experienced the same shit you do. You're not special. But when people do have control, they put in the **work** to do better for themselves. You choose to live below societal means. You live below people on the streets, and I mean that. Because you don't use your local resources, you don't use foodbanks, you DoorDash every other meal, you spend money you need to be saving, you don't have proper housing (apartment-style living doesn't count because you don't have legal rights to residency without a lease), but you like to act like any of us are jealous of you. The roaches in your bathroom aren't even jealous of you. TanjirHOE said he didn't like you cause he doesn't like people who don't work for what the want, or at least try to work towards something, and I'm the same way. You have unreasonable goals, half-baked "career" ideas, skewed and selfish priorities, and you deeply need therapy to fix your work ethic and confidence so you can have some miracle of a plan to get you up to standard living by 40 maybe 50 if you're lucky. I literally don't give a daaamn about how you look, your attitude and projected insecurities is plenty for me. I don't like people who want to play victim incapable of doing good for themselves and then like to act like their hot shit.
The best way you can play victim is to call the Human Services Dept. of NM for your future self. Happy your check came home girl! <3
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I’ve sent her countless links to resources in her area. I’ve had to jump through those hoops, but New Mexico’s makes it so easy! I can’t believe she refuses help. Truly befuddled 🤓 But congratulations on your home! Your resilience is greatly admired <3
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I bought a house and used up any resources I could get and ended up getting a 10k grant and spent maybe 5k from my tax refund. All in a year went from being homeless to owning a home it’s possible she just likes being a lazy slob
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watch her blame this on capitalism since she just learned the word
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Commiechu arc incoming
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ok, you ate that 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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Girl I had a long week I had to just let it out 😭😭😭
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well i'm glad you did JUST THAT booky 😭
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YES YES YES CLOCK THAT TEA! I can’t stand it when firstly, people CHOOSE to be in poor situations because to me that comes off as a mockery to people that have actually been thru a struggle or who are currently struggling and then secondly I hate when people don’t even try to work hard for the shit they want in life. There’s people that bust ass and get up and try to make something of their lives and then here go ppl like Tophia who think that the world owes them some shit because she refuses to work to better her situation. Tophia is an able bodied American citizen therefore she can work, and I really don’t care about the excuse of she’s disabled. If she can get on and get off live then she has the concept of clock in and clock out down and if she can order Ubers to go to a PO Box to pick up a Nintendo switch then she can do to same to go to a job. Ain’t no excuses for Tophia.
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But let's not forget people don't only hate her because she's lazy, won't work and unrealistic.. Most people also hate her because she's quite literally a predator i'm sorry but we all saw that minor teen corn on her phone, it wasn't edited at all and it didn't even just happened once😭... She also abused that poor kitten months ago and has been abusing Hershey for years and everyone can tell by the way it was always growling at her... She also talks shit about anyone and anything, she's been trying to start beef with Shawty Bae for months and SB literally dosen't give a flying fuck about her i'm pretty sure if you were to pay SB to fight Tophia she'd decline the offer because she knows how to make money without being problematic which is why she got a brand deal with Shein recently. Tophia also said some extremely offensive slurs on live multiple times and she even said one literally not even a week ago??😭 Don't even get me started on the poor men she's been harrassing on the internet (justin burke or wtv his name is and wesley boba) I want everyone to remember that I think the reason why Wesley Boba deleted all of his social media isn't because of tophia's viewers harrassing him but tophia literally bashed wesley sm on live one time and i hope someone finds that live because i remember watching that live and she literally stated multiple times that wesley boba was an alcoholic and that she didn't give a fuck about him or wtv and i'm pretty sure she started saying that after he rejected her because before that when people would troll tophia about wesley boba she'd be like "no we're texting alot we're friends and he even wished me a happy bday *smirkchu*" Honestly wesley deserved sm better and i hope he's doing well and i hope tophia knows that she'll probably never get a man not because she's fucking musty, broke and problematic but also because she's a harrasser and she's literally a femcel
I've talked to Marie and I told her, I was recently just homeless from Feb. 2023 to Feb. 2024. I utilized my resources in AZ to get to my forever home. I offered her the same resources and connects including a social worker. Her response? No, we'll get a house on our own.
What do you mean a house? And on your own? Buying or renting a whole house is unrealistic. Everything is unrealistic. You're spot on with your entire post OP.