Y’all wanna hear something so fucked up? 😭

r/tophiachutiktok • by b4b3333 •

My mom died suddenly the same day of the shooting.

Doctors told me my Mom was septic and had just coded and she wouldn’t pull through. So I was spiraling in the hospital stairwell sobbing and trying to calm myself down while waiting for my sister to arrive to take her off life support when I check reddit and see the all the posts.

So now I automatically think of the Chu family when I think of my mom’s death.

Its so fucked up but it’s okay to laugh.

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  1. cnnamonz Share • 212

    i’m so sorry for your loss my love 🩷

    1. b4b3333 Share • 57

      thank you ❤️
      it’s hard

  2. MainPure788 Share • 106

    My mum passed two days before and I was the one to find her body, she died of dysrhythmia and I was super emotional and felt bad for tophia but not anymore sure it's sad she lost someone but her blaming everyone and their momma ain't it, hell even her complaining about her name not being in a news article while her mum is recovering.

    1. b4b3333 Share • 34

      ughhh i’m sorry that’s so terrible.
      hang in there, friend.

      i know it’s so fucked up. I found myself being angry and thinking like why didn’t my mom make it? not good.

      1. MainPure788 Share • 15

        Same though it was more so being angry at myself thinking maybe if I pushed her to go to a doctor she'd still be alive

    2. Significant_Meat_421 Share • 7

      I'm incredibly sorry for your loss,sis

    3. ericdeclan54 Share • 7

      🤟 I am so sorry

    4. Possum_Princess_42 Share • 2

      So very sorry for your loss ❤️

  3. Competitive-Taco Share • 39

    Sorry for Ur loss❤️

  4. anonymousx97 Share • 30

    Definitely not going to laugh 💔 that’s so tragic and I’m very sorry you went through that. I hope you well grieve and heal in your own time.

    1. b4b3333 Share • 12

      thank you, friend!

  5. Puzzleheaded_Hat5722 Share • 27

    Thinking about you and your family ❤️🕊️

  6. According_Fondant_98 Share • 20

    No joke, I pulled a all nighter that day because it was my birthday, then I opened the reddit early morning and saw all this.......

  7. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 20

    Try to get off here and heal. I have had to take breaks from Tophia and her toxicity

    1. b4b3333 Share • 18

      the funny thing is I haven’t been keeping with her dumbass in monthssss but I like refreshed my home page and saw it😭 why am I cosmically linked to her? nooo

      1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 14

        God don't say that! You're a much better person than her, and your mom loved you, not tolerated you ❤️ that you have to remember

  8. Gnarsenic Share • 14

    My condolences.

  9. ericdeclan54 Share • 11

    I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. Do what you can to take care of yourself. I lost my mom 10 years ago, I feel the ache in my bones for you. Man that absolutely blows I am just. So sorry.

    1. b4b3333 Share • 6

      this made me cry. i’m sorry you lost your mom too. it’s horrible

      1. ericdeclan54 Share • 5

        🥺🤟

        If you ever wanna vent or chat or anything, pls feel free to reach out. I can't fix anything, but I am a great listener. Sometimes you just gotta talk about it ya know

  10. ExhaustedMawm Share • 9

    I’m sorry friend 💗

  11. lgoeteial Share • 8

    I’m sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you and your family. I know what it’s like to lose a parent as my dad passed away back in 2023 about 7 days after his birthday. He had been battling cancer for years and it took its toll. Then my grandmother passed away a few months after he did and she had raised us when we were little.

    I hope that one day you won’t have to think about Toph when it comes to your mom ❤️‍🩹

    1. ericdeclan54 Share • 1

      🤟🤟🤟

  12. Significant_Meat_421 Share • 7

    OP,I'm so sorry for your loss

  13. Massloser Share • 6

    That is really rough, friend. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.

  14. PanhandlersPets Share • 6

    Sorry your mom died. Even more sorry that memory will be mixed in with Tophia. I hope you're doing alright. Grief is a real bitch.

  15. Spiritedawayfan2015 Share • 6

    So sorry for your loss. I was sleeping it was around 11am when my Mom called me. Mind you she used to watch Tophia with me but got bored of watching her especially Motel era. And she didn’t like the things she’d say about people’s dead relatives. She broke the news to me she found out through my Brother who also doesn’t watch her. I came on her immediately and saw a post that said it was confirmed. I was like wtf 😳

  16. Striking_Record6196 Share • 6

    I am so EXTREMELY sorry for your loss, love. I lost my dad recently and it’s been the hardest. I know I’m a stranger but if you ever need a chat, my inbox is open. Parents loss is like no other.

    1. ericdeclan54 Share • 1

      I'm sorry for your loss. Lost my mom 10 years ago, and it still hurts. I know this wasn't addressed at me, but I was reading through the comments because I had originally replied to OP last night. If you ever need to vent or chat or anything, same offer I gave OP stands. I'm a stranger but sometimes you just gotta vent to the void.

      1. Striking_Record6196 Share • 2

        I am also so sorry for your loss. It could be 10 days or 10 years. It’s still hurts pretty bad. Same thing goes for you if you ever need to vent I’m here. I know I’m a stranger as well but sometimes we all just need someone. thank you so much for being so kind and for your thoughtful words. 🩷 it gives me hope that there are still really kind people in this world.

        1. ericdeclan54 Share • 1

          Thank you so much 💜

  17. trashleybanks Share • 5

    My heart goes out to you. ❤️💕 Please take good care of yourself!

  18. cinnamongirl777x Share • 5

    hi friend—i saw your post when i first opened the app and i want you to know that you are incredibly strong. my mother went into septic shock last year due to medical malpractice involving a surgery. no one prepares you to see your parents in such a state, but we keep going, especially for them. sending you healing and lots of love <3

    1. b4b3333 Share • 3

      ugh im so sorry you went through that. it’s truly horrifying.

      thank you for the kinds words

  19. DifferenceHour3719 Share • 4

    I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my dad a few months ago in a similar way. I still have my hard days but it gets better 💜 when you think about the chus, think about all the stupid stuff Tophia has said for a laugh 🤣

  20. CaptainCorgu Share • 4

    Sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family can heal.

  21. Junior-Commercial295 Share • 4

    my condolences. I hope nothing but peace, love, and joy are brought to your life <3

  22. Aggressive_Hat_4212 Share • 2

    Sorry for your loss :(. 🫂

  23. starkwolves95 Share • 2

    I’m so sorry for your loss 💔

  24. TheGamingSenpa1 Share • 2

    I lost my mom to cancer on Feb 18th, so if you ever need someone to talk to, im here 🫡🫡

  25. very-strawberried Share • 2

    Mine too☠️ 4 days after, so crazy how life works

    1. b4b3333 Share • 2

      ughh i’m so sorry.
      i keep waiting for it to be over

      1. very-strawberried Share • 1

        It still doesn't feel real to me, but I hope you're able to find some peace with the situation in time🫶

  26. Aylx_110027 Share • 1

    I’m so sorry for your loss b4b I wish you the best

  27. Trina0404 Share • 1

    I am so sorry for your loss. I can not imagine losing a parent. I wish you well and success in life and may your mom rest in peace🙏🏼

  28. Possum_Princess_42 Share • 1

    I’m so sorry for your loss

  29. stan-l0ona Share • 1

    i’m so sorry, this is terrible, i hope you and the rest of your family are doing okay ! 🩷🩷

  30. haterbation Share • 1

    sorry hun :(<3 lost my mom by life support too 4 years ago. 💗💗 inbox is always open

  31. Sea-Pea-892 Share • 1

    Sorry for your loss): 💔

  32. West_Wolverine4497 Share • -3

    I'm just tired of people taking all the stuff she says seriously. She is traumatized, let her point blame. We know we didn't do it but is her saying it hurting us in any way? No, then people talk about how she is posting videos already. I lost my mom and a week later, I was back at my job. Most jobs allow 3 days for a parent. That's it. She still has to make money somehow. Like people let the stuff she says bother them. She talks about white women. Did it bother me? No. Why is it a topic. You can choose to let it go.