I'm not going to say she didn't get abused; as a child, I won't say that. I might sound like a jerk, but this comes off as her wanting people to feel bad for her. This came out of nowhere, tophiachu, I'm not joking, go to therapy; the internet is not a place for you
For more context, someone in her chat asked Have you ever been in a relationship This is how she responded
u/biohazard_girl1 • 1 month ago • score 36
Are you serious 😲 that's a horrible response (if even true she lies so much you don't know whats real or a lie with her)
u/fatgoth7 • 1 month ago • score 39
I think she might be referring to this from the catfish texts? Her cousin showed her porn at 10 or something allegedly
u/Far-Insurance-4448 • 1 month ago • score 42
She said she was in a relationship though, so although Tophia does look like she would date her cousin she's probably just bullshiting for attention, like why would we not hear about this sooner? Ffs while her brother was getting gunned down in the background she was running filming an Instagram story crying, she legitimately tells the internet about everything
u/Crochetwizard69 • 1 month ago • score 25
She ran and lied and said they tried to pull her out a window. The newspaper article got it right “she ran “ and she didn’t look back. She made an IG video but didn’t bother calling police.
u/kelly_eliza16 • 1 month ago • score 9
Yup and then got mad at the news for saying that AND for not including her in the story.
u/Still_Mission_1918 • 1 month ago • score 16
Yes, she definitely seems like the type to be an inbred 😬
u/fatgoth7 • 1 month ago • score 2
Yeah honestly. It's so sick to think that either she's making this up or using trauma for sympathy baiting like she did with brotherchu. And since she clearly isn't grieving that situation much it's not hard to believe she straight up doesn't actually gaf that she was groomed and just sees it as new leverage for attention. She's fucking insufferable
u/qtcapy • 1 month ago • score 4
Yeah this is what I think it is
u/Crochetwizard69 • 1 month ago • score 32
She’s a liar. No one comes out and just says that if it happens to them.
u/CycleAffectionate993 • 1 month ago • score 15
Especially like that why did she phrase it like that
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u/NarcHater255 • 1 month ago • score 17
I don't believe a word she says
u/Select_Medium5147 • 1 month ago • score 6
I don’t believe her cause when she used to talk about her being in her one day relationship she never ever mentioned that. It’s embarrassing that she even brings this up cause not only was it one day but she was a kid it don’t count.
u/bittybam • 1 month ago • score 29
she's a pathological liar who uses the most sensitive, disturbing topics to victimize herself. she's openly admitted to never being abused before and now she's changing her story because she's on the streets and needs the money. no one just drops that little tidbit of information so casually, with no emotion, goes "don't wannnnaaa talk about thaat" like a teenager and then jumps right back into talking about pattymelts. as CSA survivor myself, my abuse and trauma gave me CPTSD, my heart drops into my ass when my abuse is brought up or talked about in any way, i can't address it without becoming teary eyed and i don't WANT to address it or talk about it, i can't just say i was SA'd as a child without a flood of complex emotions, i get flashbacks. it's something i've dealt with and have to continue dealing with for the rest of my life, it made me develop several mental illnesses and changed me forever. it literally ruined my life. so for her to just flagrantly use CSA as a ploy for sympathy is disgusting. fuck you tophia.
u/CIitorussaurus • 1 month ago • score 7
Given how weird papachu is I wouldn’t doubt it sadly. Ik this is a weird way for her to bring it up but he’s been weird on and off his meds.
u/Cautious_Plum4608 • 1 month ago • score 3
I wasn’t doubting her but it weird response for the question that was
u/CIitorussaurus • 1 month ago • score 3
Ik you weren’t! I was hoping it wouldn’t sound like I was questioning you so I’m sorry!
u/Cautious_Plum4608 • 1 month ago • score 2
Ik I just saying
u/sad-dog-hours • 1 month ago • score 9
why would a real SA victim say that in response to “have you ever been in a relationship”….. this hog is so weird
u/meinshao87 • 1 month ago • score 1
I think she’s addicted to making very big statements for the shock factor
u/Dollleyedgirl • 1 month ago • score 6
why does she consider childhood SA a "relationship" to begin with????? she has such a skewed view of love/intimacy and i have no doubt its from trauma regarding the topic but she has GOT to get her eggs in a basket because shes making herself sound sm more predatory than she wants us to think she is😩
u/delicatelittledoll • 1 month ago • score 4
Yeah that made me think for a second. Because of course all SA victims have different responses to the trauma so I can’t speak on that. But I feel like she shouldn’t think of that as a relationship even if she is telling the truth. Because that just proves she has a warped view on things
u/Sharp_Shoulder1472 • 1 month ago • score 7
As someone who went thru SA as a child, the only time I bring it in a “random” way is when I’m with friends and they’ve been aware of it or has went through the same thing and we can relate. But saying it like this to thousands of people feels like she’s just lying.
My parents don’t know about it, no one except close friends, even tho some people do talk about it, it’s still a big thing to talk about it in public but she can just say it like she’s saying what she ate this morning… feels super weird to me idk
u/Sharp_Shoulder1472 • 1 month ago • score 3
Also here I’m talking about it because it’s anonymous, I don’t mind mentioning it
u/Cautious_Plum4608 • 1 month ago • score 2
I’m sorry to hear about your situation and thank you for sharing I’m glad you have support and I know things will get better.❤️🤞🏾
u/sotojuice • 1 month ago • score 3
ill definitely get downvoted but i don't care. tophia didn't get sa and if she did it had to be a family member or someone that had easy access to her(DOUBT), so if it wasn't her uncle or the father or even the dead brother no one touched her. this is just another excuse for her having "trama" yeah shes that dumb and pathetic... she does the same thing with pretending to be bisexual or suicidal lol its all for attention and or pity.
u/N-Word_Norton • 1 month ago • score 2
I'm so confused. So let's just pretend for a second that Tophia isn't a pathological liar and this really did happen. So, is she saying she started a relationship with someone, when she was 10, and then that person (i guess another 10 year old?) immediately assaulted her? Or is she saying like a random person or possible relative assaulted her out of nowhere, but she now considers that a relationship? Either way is fucking wild. A lot of us had little boyfriends or girlfriends when we were 10, but as an adult you don't bring those up if you're talking about previous "relationships" but it would be even crazier to consider your rapist as a former partner??
u/Select_Medium5147 • 1 month ago • score 3
I truly think she’s talking about the time she watched porn with a kid like 3 years older. She mentioned this during the catfish thing and when she told them they said it was a form of sa or something. And she said she didn’t realize that and would need “time to process”.
u/s-aintt • 1 month ago • score 1
someone asks if youve been in a relationship and you immediately think of ur supposed SAist... what...??? That's not a fucking relationship???
I stand by that she's just a fucking liar and aint shit happened. She's just trying to get attention and according to her "only pretty girls get SA'd" so of course that means now *she* has to say she was SA'd to feel some worth like a fucking weirdo.
u/Radiant_Smell7039 • 1 month ago • score 1
Tophia uses this topic so nonchalantly. She’s so crude and insensitive to situations that have traumatically affected so many people! Only thing I feel sorry for is her ignorance!
