Tophia is an enigma I could not even begin to fathom.

I am F29. Just pointing out that we're practically in the same age range. I work a government job. I also have MDD, BPD, anxiety with panic attacks and possible PTSD. So, Tophia, fuck off with the mental illnesses. It doesn't excuse shitty behavior. To be fair with you, I do not look like the personification of a dried out turd so maybe that's where we differ. Despite all the shit that I personally go through, I cannot for the life of me imagine living a life like that. Not being supported by anyone in her family, being enabled to the point where she can't even be bothered to try looking for a job. I remember being younger and how my parents would always tell me to look for a job because at the end of the day, I'm the one benefiting from it. At a very human level, I feel some kind of hmmm, well idk if it's pity or whatever, because she is very much a victim of her parents' delusional upbringing. She probably never developed past a certain age because of that. Mind chu, this is not me feeling sorry for her but in the quest for understanding, this is the only way I could personally rationalize her behavior. She doesn't even seem to know how to wash herself properly! Her face looks like it hasn't felt the touch of soap in decades. I could only ever describe her as a giant toddler. So, if anyone of you are parents, don't fuck up as bad as Mamachu and Papapchu did. inb4 people think I'm comparing my life with hers, I am simply in awe (?) of the fact that her whole family survived this long despite seemingly sharing 3 braincells between them.