r/tophiachutiktok • 2025-09-27 14:32:50 • score 130 • by MoniqueMojo
Tophia’s constant whining about her old shelter “friends”
I get that Tophia is an extremely lonely person and the people at the last shelter are the closest thing she’s ever had to friends in her 31 years of living but the way she’s been acting about them ghosting her is actually really pathetic now. It’s 2025. There are so many ways for those people to keep in touch with Tophia if they really wanted to. It’s clear to everyone but Tophia that they simply did not care as much as her. She knew these people for like 2 months and she’s acting like she lost lifelong friends. When I was 12 I went to Georgia to visit my cousins and they introduced me to their friends. I had such a fun summer hanging out with all of them and when it was time to fly back home and go back to school I was sad but you know what I didn’t do? Act like how Tophia is acting right now at her big age. Does she think Anklechu and these other supposed “friends” she had are sitting around saying “Damn I miss Tophia so much 😣” Obviously not. These people have moved on with their lives and have bigger fish to fry than sitting on Instagram all day whining about losing Tophia. She needs to get a grip. She’s been doing this for weeks now over people she knew for like 2 months. As Tophia herself would say “It’s giving weird”.
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u/ImFucktM8 • 3 weeks ago • score 96
i guess a mansion big enough for all her “peeps” is off the list of things to buy
u/shon_the_cat • 3 weeks ago • score 58
If she wants friends, she needs to put in the effort to keep them.
- Practice hygiene.
- Get off of the damn phone and find some actual hobbies, news, or “adult” things to discuss with others. No one likes a vapid soulless husk whose only conversational topics are social media bullshit.
- Stop being a racist transphobic bigot.
- Learn some sense of what is appropriate and what is not. People do not need to hear about your nonexistent sex life, and adult friends of the same sex (who are not into the same sex) do not cuddle.
- Stop begging all of the fucking time. NO ONE LIKES A BEGGAR.
- Get a grip and actually put yourself out there. Yes, it can feel scary. I’ve been there. But if you actually conquer your fear and interact with others, good things can happen. I’ve been trying lately myself and I feel so happy I took the plunge. Tofupa would never, though, since she’s a massive coward.
u/tophiachuqueen • 3 weeks ago • score 42
😭they obviously ghosted her for a reason, her “friends” probably cut her off cause they saw it as a one sided friendship. Obviously had different goals in mind as well, they were prolly focused on getting a job & getting back on their feet. While biggums biggest concern was trying to find new ways to get beg for money while not getting a job.
u/Jellybeanzdream • 3 weeks ago • score 41
I imagine most of the women there in the shelters are in survival mode. Tophia was a foxhole buddy during their stay, and no longer serve their purpose. There’s nothing to gain for them by keeping her as a friend. And mostly, I’m sure they quickly realized she’s a mental teenager and got tired of her. She’s exhausting.
u/CleanProfessional678 • 3 weeks ago • score 27
Being in a shelter was probably a step down for most of them and they were scrambling to get out of the situation. For Tophia, it was a major improvement on her situation and she intended to ride it out as long as she could. Being around someone with her mindset would be especially draining to someone who was trying to get their life together, especially since she’s so defeatist.
u/CountBram • 3 weeks ago • score 15
They also must have gotten real tired of her airing out their dramas to random people on lives and obviously omitting her part in their dramas.
u/Good-Fudge3570 • 3 weeks ago • score 21
She had her hand out taking from them the entire time too. She’s such a grifter it didn’t faze her one bit to let any and everyone pay her way. They probably thought she was “special” and felt bad at first, but after a while they definitely realized she is just a problematic leech.
u/uglyAF2024 • 3 weeks ago • score 16
If she worked long enough she would know just like co workers aren’t your friends , people that you meet while going through a bad situation and are forced to be in the same place are also not your friends,its all down to convenience ,you have to be around each other so might as well get along , laugh a little and enjoy each others company and when its time to part ways that is that
plus some people dont want to be reminded of their hard times so distance themselves from anyone or anything associated with that ,some have probably got jobs now and a place and are moving forward
u/CampbellKitty • 3 weeks ago • score 15
You were used, get over it Tophia. You're not a forever friend.
u/Select_Medium5147 • 3 weeks ago • score 7
She’s pathetic. Anyone normal would realize they were just friends cause of the situation. Even as a kid i realized this type of thing lol. My parents would bring me and my brother on Disney cruises growing up and I used to love going to the kids club thing where your parents drop u off at and there’s fun activities to do. I always made lots of friends to hang out with during my times at the kids club and we’d hang out the whole cruise when I wasn’t with my family. I was sad to leave when it ended cause the fun was over but I knew I’d never see them again and didn’t stress about it. Fun while it lasted kind of thing
u/upstylo • 3 weeks ago • score 7
ya u were 12 tho.... tofupachu acts like an 8 year old...IMMM HUNGARYYYYY ALL I WANT IS A PATTY MELTTTT.... enuff said lol 🧌🧌🧌🧌🧌
u/anonymousx97 • 3 weeks ago • score 8
She doesn’t know how to have friends at her big age. She’s never had a group of friends before, it seems the shelter was her first time. I don’t even think the others at the shelter necessarily liked her. I think they just hung out with her for a bit for something to do , probably pitied her tbh. Then once they got to know her, realized she’s an insufferable, unhygienic POS and won’t improve her situation so they ditched her lmao.
All I can imagine is tophia awkwardly and quiet sitting with her “peeps”. They have to talk to her to get a response.
Edit: she’s also sooo touch starved and sexually frustrated that she’s extremely desperate for anything with a pulse . No tophia! Friends do not cuddle and act intimidate with each other … no one likes a big desperate btch.
u/Far_Fish8306 • 3 weeks ago • score 1
At this point, she’s confirming the lesbian allegations 😭
u/Aggravating_Pay_1313 • 3 weeks ago • score 8
It’s hard to make sense of any of her ramblings, but it sounds like she caused problems for them too. It sounds like for one of them she caused them to have relationship problems with their partner, and she mentioned an employee targeting her and her friends at the previous shelter. She’s claiming she didn’t do anything and it was just a miscommunication with the friend and that person’s girlfriend that caused a riff, but we’ve all seen the lesbian hinting tophia’s been doing. Sounds like another lie to me.
u/PanicNo8854 • 3 weeks ago • score 7
There's zero chance those people are going to acknowledge her. She's been creepy AF about it. Plus I'm positive they were only her friends when she had money. She's so desperate that I'm sure she paid for everything. Now she's broke and her friends are gone.
u/sanriobabexo • 3 weeks ago • score 2
I missed a chapter, so she’s mad at them for moving on with life?