WHYYY does tophia want to be black so badly???? esp after, not only calling us a "burnt color" but claiming that most black women have "masculine features" and "get mistaken as trans" (smth along those lines)??
i just don't understand why she wants to be a "black baddie" so badly? while also stereotyping black women as ignorant women who talk loudly and wear false eyelashes and wigs?? like, just say you're jealous atp.
i'm sorry, she just disgusts me so much, i don't understand why she wants to be perceived as black so badly when it: 1. doesn't make her any better as a person?? 2. doesn't make her prettier, like girl, you're still ugly. and 3. has said disgusting things about black women???
not to mention her weird racism towards white ppl. no respectable black person does that shit, so wtf.
It makes it easier for her to claim victimisation and discrimination.
u/BitPrestigious6777 • 3 weeks ago • score 48
i hate that she wants to be discriminated so badly. shit's weird
u/qtcapy • 3 weeks ago • score 25
Her full time job is finding ways to scam for sympathy money
u/shon_the_cat • 3 weeks ago • score 27
She sees being black as the ultimate thing to pity or view as undesirable. She’s so disgusting!
u/Both-Structure-6786 • 3 weeks ago • score 23
The thing is she thinks blacks are better than white and other races so she wants to be one. She also wants to be black because she can play victim and yell racism when she is being confronted.
u/BitPrestigious6777 • 3 weeks ago • score 16
i hate that she has the idea that no black person can be racist. it's like she thinks African Americans are the superior race?? the whole point is that we're all equal, her logic is so skewed.
u/Outrageous-Being869 • 3 weeks ago • score 1
Yes this argument of hers pisses me off SO bad. Tostupid, any human can be racist. And that means I guess in her case Neanderthals can be peoplist
u/Apart-Membership8517 • 3 weeks ago • score 0
Which is definitely an.... Opinion.. lol
u/Initial-Pin613 • 3 weeks ago • score 58
honestly, the way she mainly brings it up is to use as some sort of “defense” for being the way she is (homeless, jobless, unhealthy), which is disgustingly racist in itself tbh
u/BitPrestigious6777 • 3 weeks ago • score 20
exactly! letting her true colors show, it's pathetic
u/No_Panic7619 • 3 weeks ago • score 12
She's always deflecting and she's a racist POS. She's also a very jealous creature. Even of she were black it doesn't mean other black women look like her. 🧌🧌🧌
u/Lurky_Lurk31 • 3 weeks ago • score 7
u/CampbellKitty • 3 weeks ago • score 12
I'm glad a lot more black people are speaking out about this and calling her out.
u/thisunrest • 3 weeks ago • score 28
Tophia has a low iq and no sense of herself as an individual.
It could be she’s rage-baiting because she knows it pisses people off when she says she’s black.
I personally think that she tries to claim she’s black, because in her mind, Black people are victims of society, and if she can be black, then that means she is a permanent victim that you cannot demand anything from.
Please understand that I’m not saying these are my opinions about Black people, but it looks like they might be hers.
Whether it’s a racial identity, or a psychological illness, like major depression, or traumatic stress, she is going to pick and choose anything she can that she thinks will get her a free pass out of being responsible and accountable for her life
u/qtcapy • 3 weeks ago • score 4
To further her narrative that she’s a victim
u/PipedInFromIthaca • 3 weeks ago • score 21
Had this conversation with my partner this morning--as far as I see it, Tophia holds a discriminatory, racist, and stereotypical view of black American women. She's posted before about colourist bullshit and about not being a "lashes having, wig wearing black girl" or words to that effect. She sees black women as unemployed, shallow, vain--and when she's criticised for being exactly these things herself, she holds up this strawman idea of blackness as a shield, "I see black women as XYZ, and you're complaining that I'm XYZ, so you must be being racist". Which makes the reality all the more frustrating for the rest of us, because here's this mixed white/latin woman blackfishing and not even doing it to "steal valour" for all the great and beautiful things black women actually do represent.
u/shon_the_cat • 3 weeks ago • score 12
Yes, she has nothing to say about black culture, history, art, food, or anything else to take pride in. It’s insulting how she sees being black as something to find pity or hatred in.
u/PipedInFromIthaca • 3 weeks ago • score 10
She wouldn't know a plate of kisra from a hole in the ground and probably thinks Hugh Masekela and Fela Kuti are cutting demos on soundcloud or that Stephen Biko invented the ballpoint pen. Nevermind having any setswana or arabic, she barely has any english. Like, I'm Irish-Italian (as in, born and raised in Ireland to Italian parents) and I get frustrated at the kind of Paulie Walnuts "italians" and Boston "irish", and there's not even a race element in that, it's amplified to a million percent when you're already in a position of having to push back against stereotypes and racism from the mainstream media and then seeing someone claim to belong to that put-upon group while just doubling down on all the worst prejudice.
u/BitPrestigious6777 • 3 weeks ago • score 7
you're literally on point with this.
u/Grand-Yellow1259 • 3 weeks ago • score 7
It's kinda wild how misogynistic Tophia is lol
u/smellypuppypaws • 3 weeks ago • score 5
Not a therapist/ psychologist (etc) my theory for her is that she knows deep down inside that her dad is either Ronald ( white guy ) or some random Mexican guy, and THATS why she hates both races ( ironic since her grandpa is Mexican - so technically she’s part Mexican ) so much and likes to fake being black.
It’s fucking equally obvious and pathetic.
u/Ok-Ebb2872 • 3 weeks ago • score 2
i read a comment on this sub a year ago saying that a rumor on a comment on a facebook group from someone claiming to have gone to high school with tophia alleged that tophia's biological dad was a mexican guy marie hooked up with at the mexican border in order to get citizenship. here is the exact quote below:
*I remember reading a comment on a FB group about somebody who went to school with Tophia. I had the screenshot on my old phone from a year and half ago. I don't have it anymore.*
*They said that Tophias real Dad was someone Marie met at the border and it was like a one night stand thing. And the guy was trying to secure citizenship. And he knocked Marie up, and left her*
I mean, was Marie hanging out by the border? I think that’s kinda not true.
u/Ok-Ebb2872 • 3 weeks ago • score 1
i mean, new mexico is a border state and i would assume she would have family and friends in mexico to meet given how she did say she was a party girl back in her days, and there is a lot of partying at the border given the dive bars there. plus it would explain why she is racist against her own ethnicity
u/adnoroc • 3 weeks ago • score 10
She says that to relate all her issues to being black. She's really fucking racist
u/mrDJscrew89 • 3 weeks ago • score 10
Thank you for speaking out about her blatant racism towards not only black people but white people too. She's such an energy vampire, hearing her talk about anything makes me miserable and irritated. I can't imagine living with someone who just complains 24/7
u/BitPrestigious6777 • 3 weeks ago • score 8
ofc!! she immediately assumes all white ppl are racist and that all white women are jealous of her. it's gross how she thinks white women specifically are below her. and she wonders why she has zero friends 🤷🏾♀️
u/Ok-Ebb2872 • 3 weeks ago • score 2
she reminds me of a former classmate from high school that I went on a date with 8 years after we graduated high school. Like tophia, she would complain all the time and would threaten to kill herself if I refused to be her friend after she told me she wasn't attracted to me and that she had a virtual boyfriend on Japancupid. I called the police and told them about her suicide threat. Never saw her again since may 2021
u/awaywardgoat • 3 weeks ago • score -8
Have you considered taking a step back and not feeding your victim complex? You don't have any proof of her doing these things it seems like you're just going off of an emotional reaction. If she bothers you that much you need to ignore her.
u/LadyMayhem02 • 3 weeks ago • score 6
Like you ignore Larson? Lol gtfo She’s said everything the OP quoted.
u/Outrageous-Being869 • 3 weeks ago • score 3
No proof???? There are actual videos of her saying these things
u/LoLBarnn • 3 weeks ago • score 1
She is so stoopid and doesn't have a inner monolog before she says the most stupid shit I've ever heard
u/Ok-Ebb2872 • 3 weeks ago • score 2
i thought tophia wanted to be white OP? I mean, she made a fake catfish dating account where she posed as a white woman using a picture of a white woman for her profile
u/NikiTeslasPigeonWife • 3 weeks ago • score 1
What she's hoping for, every year, it seems. She doesn't know how to be anything other than a victim, or at least appear to be one to people who don't know her MO.
u/AstroLiz_8899 • 3 weeks ago • score 1
Nah fr fr she’s absolutely disgusting. I’m literally African American DNA test. 70 percent African Nigerian Bantu ect. Dad’s dad is German and black and Jewish. 26 percent of me is white. A dna test is not hard to get idk why she won’t get one do the test and put all of this 💩 to bed.
Regardless , I agree with you and on behalf of us black women and mixed people we do not claim her. Homoerectus racist transphobic homophobic ahh 🧌 ogre 👹 bih
