r/tophiachutiktok • 2025-09-17 20:58:36 • score 3 • by EaseCritical2707
what can she do with brotherchu?
tophia says she still hasn't buried her brother and after being told to on live, she said she is going through a lot right now with depression and ptsd. does anyone know how long she has to bury her brother because it's been multiple months😥has she set up fundraising for a funeral because im sure some people would've helped, especially if she did it earlier..
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u/perfect_fifths • 1 month ago • score 4
She could get a locket and put his ashes in it. She doesn’t have to bury him. He’s already cremated
u/EaseCritical2707 • 1 month ago • score 2
i honestly don't know if he's cremated or not. i was just on her live and she was complaining about how she hasn't been able to bury her brother yet
u/perfect_fifths • 1 month ago • score 3
He is cremated. She doesn’t need to bury him. She keeps pretending she has to for pity
u/Vast_Bet9113 • 1 month ago • score 3
He is cremated. The state cremated him but she also want to bury his ashes
u/perfect_fifths • 1 month ago • score 2
She can’t. Marie is next of kin, not her
u/Trazadone2023 • 1 month ago • score 37
She doesn’t need anymore money. She tried a gfm and it got refunded because she lost his death certificate, but that doesn’t matter since she wasn’t allowed since the state of New Mexico paid to get him cremated and have a showing. What she needs to do is get a job, save money and bury her himself at this point.
u/EaseCritical2707 • 1 month ago • score 10
she lost his death certificate?? that's insane, i was just on her live and she was complaining about how she hasn't been able to bury her brother yet
u/Trazadone2023 • 1 month ago • score 14
She’s a liar and believes everything is her viewers fault. She’s been blaming trolls since it happened. Shes been caught buying unnecessary shit, gambling, and begging for money online repeatedly. I wouldn’t listen to anything she says online, she’s just an incredibly lazy, greedy person.
u/Grand-Decision6449 • 1 month ago • score 6
I’m not sure if I even believe that she picked it up in the first place 😭
u/Covington_Head_Dr • 1 month ago • score 4
Those can easily be replaced as well. Smh
u/No-Target-586 • 1 month ago • score 8
Well if i died and my remains where to be cremated and my family had nowhere to Bury or keep them I'd just expect them to do what most people do scatter them somewhere that's nice
u/EaseCritical2707 • 1 month ago • score 7
true, she doesn't have to spend money to give him a proper burial
u/tophiachuqueen • 1 month ago • score 13
He is already cremated the only reason she claims to want to bury him because “those are Marie’s wishes”, but I feel it’s just her wanting more money atp. Like if Marie really cared she would have gone to pick up those ashes and have them in her room with her.
u/HPMJ2014 • 1 month ago • score 15
The state will decide what happens to his ashes. She won’t pick them up because she doesn’t want them and she won’t ever pay to bury them, even if it’s not her money. I’m sure the state has an area they scatter ashes. He has a “mother” that can pick them up and she is next of kin. His “mother” doesn’t want them either. No mother would leave their child at a funeral home.
It’s not really Tophias job to get the ashes.
u/a_sojourner_ • 1 month ago • score 6
I think it was the first few weeks because marie was injured pretty bad but after that they could went together
I get that marie was him buried (allegedly) because i think atp that tophia said it only to get some empathy. I mean if it would be that important donald would be buried she got money on cashapp and paypal
u/NarcHater255 • 1 month ago • score 3
She literally is going to use this for the next few years until they don't give her anymore money
u/a_sojourner_ • 1 month ago • score 7
I still don’t understand why they didn’t scatter the ashes somewhere meaningful to him or the family. They only would need a permission if the property is private. If it’s so dangerous in the shelter for the ashes to be there why they didn’t give Donald to the uncle so he could kept him as long they search for housing. I mean marie and dj wanted to live with him. Why he can’t store the ashes for them? Why they don’t have a safe at the bank or something like this?
Tophia always lies and tries to gaslight people
u/Covington_Head_Dr • 1 month ago • score 2
They could've also interred his remains into a columbarium/burial niche in a wall or room or something. Way, way cheaper than purchasing an in-ground burial plot.
u/a_sojourner_ • 1 month ago • score 2
Oh yeah that is also an option but didn’t tophia said that she want him to be buried next to his grandparents?
u/Covington_Head_Dr • 1 month ago • score 2
Ahh, I didn't know that bit
u/Ill_Charge3489 • 1 month ago • score 4
why was this even down voted 😭
u/EaseCritical2707 • 1 month ago • score 4
i have no idea😭i just asked a question
u/Toht003 • 1 month ago • score 3
About 2 years before they flush him
u/Cubancinnamon • 1 month ago • score 1
unfortunately i think it’s been way too long and they might’ve already disposed of the ashes. there local laws that say that after a certain amount of time, they end up trashing, scattering, or randomly burying them but i most likely think they threw it away.