What do you think makes Tophia act the way she does?

She’s stupid

Her parents play a hugeeee part in it. Her step dad is delusional and fed her BS her whole life while her mom babied her when she’d throw tantrums and never made her do anything with her life. I also think she’s used to being bullied her whole life so it’s like a defense mechanism to be a bully too and so defensive.

Cuz she has been bullied her whole life and treated badly and she thinks if she gives the same energy off people will like her and shes delusional and has a victim mindset

Raised by a low IQ narcissist 🤷🏼‍♀️
This is the offspring you usually get.

I agree that both her parents played a huge part. Donald and Marie are awful people. Therefore, so is Topbia because she learned their behaviors. They fed her victim mentality and created a monster. I always found it funny how as soon as someone in her family would call her out on live, she resorted to crying and airing out family business. She hates being held accountable, and it's obvious that makes her uncomfortable. I dont even think she's capable of saying sorry.

Although she grew up in a somewhat broken home and in poverty most of her life…she was still spoiled and coddled. She has a victim mentality and mostly because she has gotten away with so much growing up and inside her home. Another example is that Toya Oracle character making their rounds in TikTok as of lately. Probably very different settings from Tophia growing up, but just like Tophia Oracle believes everything should be handed to them and never earned…everyone else is the oppressor and they the victim and that all comes from a mentality and environment of their upbringing.

her IQ is extremely low

She’s very obviously developmentally impaired. With that never being treated, she’s learned to mimic what she sees. Everything that comes out of her mouth is something she’s seen online. She has 0 originality. It’s like a 10 year old who wants to fit in with the big kids and just copies what they hear.

Narcissist

I would guess it’s some kind of developmental issue along with nurturing factors. But I’m just jealous

It seems clear that topiachu has significant developmental delays, but unfortunately her mother never sought an official diagnosis. If she had, she could have qualified for special education programs and services designed to teach basic life skills such as personal hygiene, self care, and even job training to help her live more independently.
For example, people with conditions like Down syndrome or those on the severe end of the autism spectrum often benefit greatly from early intervention and structured support programs. These programs don’t just focus on daily living skills they also help with social awareness, communication, and understanding sensitive topics. That type of guidance might have helped her learn how to express herself in a healthier way, so she wouldn’t come across as controversial or risk getting herself into trouble for the things she posts online.

Because her mother didn’t get her diagnosed, it became a cycle that repeated itself. She was never taught basic living skills and wasn’t given the tools she needed to thrive. On top of that, when parents of children with developmental disabilities enable or overprotect them without setting boundaries, it can sometimes result in those children becoming overly dependent or spoiled, which only makes things harder for them in adulthood.