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r/tophiachutiktok • 2025-09-01 20:34:26 • score 584 • by jaydanaee

Why are we feeling bad for Marie?

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She does not care about Donald. She’s too busy seeking validation from viewers in Tophia’s livestreams- asking for Tophia to allow her to say hello, when she SHOULD be on Tophia’s ass about losing her SON’S death certificate (if she even got it in the first place) causing him to be flushed down the nearest toilet at the morgue. It’s clear by now that Donald will not be getting buried, and Marie does not care for some reason. She’s attached to Tophia’s hip, LYING saying that Donald was not the main Chu helping pay the motel fees when Tophia even admitted he was. She seems to not even care about the fact that her husband is in jail. She is most likely sad about Donald Jrs death, but she is doing absolutely nothing to get him buried. She’s only arguing on Stationhead and being an attention whore on TikTok live. She does not care, so stop trying to sympathize with her. She’s a racist, ableist enabler who is the exact same as Tophia.
Why are we feeling bad for Marie?

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u/Far_Back_7637 • 1 month ago • score 236
Bbgirl who is we?
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 181
All the people who say “poor Marie” and that Tophia is holding her hostage, as if she’s not a grown woman.
u/MacaroonJunior9955 • 1 month ago • score 88
She’s beyond grown 😭
u/Far_Back_7637 • 1 month ago • score 23
No ik, theres always a few outliers, but anyone who is defending marie should just look her up. Like always the most uneducated ppl trying to defend the worst people.
u/Stunning-Wing-3623 • 1 month ago • score 1
u/Fire_Candle9530 • 1 month ago • score 26
I've encountered a few idiots who talk on tiktok comments before doing their research always feeling bad for Marie super annoying
u/caroleelee82 • 1 month ago • score 5
I was scrolling 📜 to find out who!!! Cuz it ain't me!
u/heartpops • 1 month ago • score 160
People don’t know how to turn their empathy off, they see an old woman in a bad predicament and want to help. I remind myself that she’s really in this position by choice, she has family to rely on but doesn’t so 🤷‍♀️
u/Stunning-Wing-3623 • 1 month ago • score 6
u/cronenber9 • 1 month ago • score 19
I really thought she'd change after being shot. I knew Tophia wouldn't, but I thought *surely* she'd realize how big of an issue her health is at this age and go somewhere away from Tophia...
u/Spiritual_Plant1247 • 1 month ago • score 1
Yall ever wonder why ?
u/heartpops • 1 month ago • score 1
I have family that was the same way. She may have her differences with any of her siblings for whatever reason, it’s still her choice if she’s too proud to admit she needs their help.

Even in my mother’s own family they had a lot of differences and conflicts, but when one of them was in trouble they would try to rally to help even if they themselves had little resources. It didn’t matter how badly the last attempt ended they still cared enough to help.

For now we only have tophia’s side of the story, and her uncle’s side of the story. In the Chuverse everyone is an unreliable narrator 🤷‍♀️
u/ManagementSelect748 • 1 month ago • score 37
She looks like the human embodiment of diarrhea
u/N-Word_Norton • 1 month ago • score 362
Why would you feel sorry for them when they are both so much smarter than all of us? I mostly watch Tophia mostly for financial and nutritional advice.
u/Crochetwizard69 • 1 month ago • score 112
You’re missing out if you don’t do the toilet paper ritual.
u/N-Word_Norton • 1 month ago • score 65
Maybe I am missing out, what exactly is the toilet paper ritual? Last I heard Tophia didn't use toilet paper, I think she said something about that when she was explaining to us that vaginas are "supposed to" smell bad.
u/Crochetwizard69 • 1 month ago • score 77
She wads up wet toilet paper to wash her face with using water only. She said it was her “beauty routine” At the same time she was bitching at Marie for buying toilet paper. Messed up family.
u/N-Word_Norton • 1 month ago • score 79
That makes sense why she's so beautiful then. No wonder she's always getting mistaken for a teenager with that flawless skin.
u/No_Garden_9995 • 1 month ago • score -6
are you being fr
u/CampbellKitty • 1 month ago • score 11
No they're not.
u/N-Word_Norton • 1 month ago • score 1
For real, for real
u/cronenber9 • 1 month ago • score 10
Do you really have to ask 😂
u/Select_Medium5147 • 1 month ago • score 30
She splashes water on her face and drys it with the toilet paper lol. And she got mad at Marie for wanting to buy toilet paper after she found out they were getting evicted from apartmentchu. Called her a stupid bitch for daring to want to “waste money on that”. Then she ordered pizza like an hour later. 😂
u/tomatoesarepoison • 1 month ago • score 17
I’m surprised she doesn’t put all that great advice behind a pay! I’ve learned so much.

u/sosogeorgie • 1 month ago • score 3
😭😭😭😭😭
u/Crochetwizard69 • 1 month ago • score 14
She’s also very fat again. She used to drink soda all day and eat junk too. She doesn’t care about herself. Look at her. What is so cute about that face? Nothing. She’s a bitch that aged out. And she is only 63. I’m right behind her and I look 40 yrs younger. I don’t have a lot so I invest in cheaper skin care. That mug. If my mom looked like that , I’d ask her why she’s always so miserable looking. She makes the same faces Tophia makes. What happened to you healthy mother Tophia. She doesn’t look fit and trim anymore. Delusional both of them. Back to shitting all over the sidewalks again. Keel in mind Marie pissed in the bed and just slept in it. Who does that? They certainly have Medicaid. They can get more healthcare than I can with Medicaid. Take from the system and never gave back.
u/Possum_Princess_42 • 1 month ago • score 2
Hospital food is a lot healthier than rehab center/nursing home food.
u/Anii-bee • 1 month ago • score 124
let’s not forget who raised tophia in the first place, the whole reason she’s like this, or why they’re even in the situation in the first place. it is quite literally all her fault
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 31
EXACTLY people seem to forget that none of this bs would be happening if Marie didn’t enable everyone.
u/Logical-Bet3422 • 1 month ago • score 45
Literally. Marie is responsible for all of this in the wider scope of things. The dad, too. Why choose to have kids and then completely fuck them over to the point where they become such terrible people that there's very little room to even begin to have empathy for them? Why not have certain stabilities set in place for yourself before even trying to conceive? Having Tophia and Donald Jr. was truly so ignorant of them, and now Tophia is way beyond saving (still on account of herself, of course. The same went for Donald Jr).

It's so unfortunate how incompetent this whole family is, and none of them had or have the ability to understand how important it is to heal and work on yourself so your issues don't worsen or trickle down the family line. I don't wanna sound rude, as I acknowledge they are all experiencing a delay of some sort. But what I say still rings true: Despite everything, you're still accountable for yourself and your actions or lack thereof. ESPECIALLY as a parent.

The Slydell's are trainwrecks that have slowly but surely worsened each other.
u/Outrageous-Being869 • 1 month ago • score 8
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u/Donalda_kk • 1 month ago • score 103
Nope never did, she racist asf, slow asf and kept encouraging Tophia disgusting behaviour over the years.
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 19
u/Juicyy56 • 1 month ago • score 21
I don't 💁‍♀️
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 21
I felt bad for like 1 day after Donald passed away, then I didn’t really gaf 😭
u/PipedInFromIthaca • 1 month ago • score 46
"We" nothing, Marie is reaping what she sowed.
u/No_Panic7619 • 1 month ago • score 11
I'm not.
u/FaithlessnessNext423 • 1 month ago • score 10
She’s one of these women who probably never cared about her kids. Like all the clips I’ve seen with her and Tophia trigger me because I don’t have the best relationship with my mom. Like y’all post Tophia’s nonsense all the time but I can probably tell you off the bat there’s a few like her all over Albuquerque they’re just not famous they’re just ghetto trash lol 😂
u/Numerous-Technology1 • 1 month ago • score 47
I originally felt bad that she got shot in the face but no sympathy anymore
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 31
Sameee I felt so horrible hearing about that. But she’s just back to being a lapdog for tophia 🤦🏾‍♀️
u/Logical-Bet3422 • 1 month ago • score 17
I think it's still a terrible thing to happen to her, but no one would've been in that exact scenario if this family knew how to function properly. It's definitely all of their faults for succumbing to their circumstances and ending up in such an unsafe situation where a car jacking or getting shot has a heightened chance of happening.

I know a lot of us are realistically only one or a few bad things happening away from being homeless, especially in this economy. It's not easy out here, but they literally have more resources at their fingertips than most average people. They aren't doing enough research or taking advantage of that, and Tophia still stuck on believing she can be a full-time influencer probably fucks with their eligibility as well.

All of this B.S., because of a poor family structure...
u/sotojuice • 1 month ago • score 27
i dont, screw her and her ugly daughter
u/LaNegra1627 • 1 month ago • score 16
u/Swimming-Inside-2983 • 1 month ago • score 3
⏰⏰⏰
u/stirfrymetothemoon • 1 month ago • score 11
# we?
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 5
😓
u/Manscouts13 • 1 month ago • score 6
Who's we?
u/kateathehuman • 1 month ago • score 36
I feel bad that she got shot and her son died, but that’s where it ends lol. I’m glad she seems to be doing okay health wise, though
u/dallas4317 • 1 month ago • score 5
It’s even hard to feel bad for that also when it’s her own fault she’s living in the car anyways. She could stand up to her no good for nothing daughter and went and stayed with her brother but she chose not to.
u/Buckle_Up_Bitches • 1 month ago • score 26
I know you mean well, but very few feel sorry for this roach-infested incubator of a mother. I am sure she is sad, but rewriting history to save face, as your terrible adult daughter absolutely shits on anything positive or helpful, doesn't change that they still did nothing for Pedochu, dead or alive. His loyalty to them cost him his life, and the gift they gave him was trying to make a GFM for money that would not be used on him.
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 25
When I said “we” I was mostly referring to the crazies on TikTok that support her. But yes, Marie is so obsessed with her dotter to the point where Donald Jr became an afterthought, and it’s so sad because he was such a mamas boy trying hard to support them. (Still, fk that pedo tho)
u/Scary-Influence-9781 • 1 month ago • score 7
"Dotter" LMAOOO i love that
u/Dr_DingBat • 1 month ago • score 7
I've never felt sorry for her. This is what Marie raised - this is what she's shackled with for the rest of her miserable life.
u/MandyOverTheRainbow • 1 month ago • score 8
I do not feel sorry for her at all. I hope they rot out on the streets.
u/New_Guarantee4535 • 1 month ago • score 0
Human embodiment of a used condom.
u/Secret-Sort-8044 • 1 month ago • score 7
u/AtalantiaX • 1 month ago • score 13
Tophia is like the most terrifying mix of her mom and dad. 😦
u/Spare_Lemon2660 • 1 month ago • score 5
And her stepdad Donald - she got all her delusion and her slowly gliding into psychosis from him 😄🙈
u/AtalantiaX • 1 month ago • score 1
Ngl I think papachu is her dad
u/biohazard_girl1 • 1 month ago • score 9
I'd like for the person that got all bitchy with me when I asked why Marie hasn't gotten Donald ashes to say my bad your right. Cuz where r you now to defend that pos of a mom. She has no fucks about him or probably her still born just tophia tophia is her number one and only.
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 5
u/a_sojourner_ • 1 month ago • score 13


This is what i think when i see them. I feel sorry that they were attacked but it is horrible that they did nothing to improve their Situation. I also find it crazy that they still have a presence on social media. Marie just should have give like 3 upgrades if she wanted to and in the last one just said that she quit social media and lives with jer Family BUT she will always chooses tophia and i get it it’s her daughter but her daughter didn’t care much about mamachu and mamachu doesn’t care about both donalds. Jr. sits somewhere on the shelf and sr. hopping from shelter to shelter if he isn’t arrested
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 9
It just makes me think about how people genuinely thought Tophia would change for the better. So naive 🤦🏾‍♀️
u/a_sojourner_ • 1 month ago • score 3
I get you but i hoped she would change a little bit. Well i think she changed for the worst imo.
u/Sammy_Saw_Shank • 1 month ago • score 7
I mean, I could see where people are coming from because she has a sick old woman and it’s hard to see people suffer like that-not something anyone can feel good about. However, it’s hard to feel bad directly for her because again she’s a terrible person in her own right and her monster daughter is her own creation.
u/Catzinboxess • 1 month ago • score 2
yeah like i don’t get how it’s hard to understand people have empathy. yes she’s a racist woman and we reject that aspect, but from a human perspective it’s hard not to feel at least sorry for a person in her situation. two things can be true at once
u/_Hi_mum_ • 1 month ago • score 3
We’re not. Neeeeeeext!
u/Electronic-Pie7237 • 1 month ago • score 43
She’s such an ugly little troll idc if that mean it pisses me off when people say she’s cute
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 24
RIGHT OMG that woman looks like a resident evil boss 😭
u/far_out_lime_ • 1 month ago • score 10
Not to mention, didn’t she drink while pregnant?
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 13
No wonder Tophia’s ears are on her neck omg 😳
u/flippermode • 1 month ago • score 4
😭😭😭😭
u/Training_Month_7193 • 1 month ago • score 5
tophia and her mother deserve each other
u/misssi79 • 1 month ago • score 2
I feel indifferent but many people can see Mamachu is heavily reliant on Toe Fungus.

She can't rely on Papachu because hes legitimately crazy. He could harm her, no stable place, and unpredictable.

When Brotherchu was alive, they never seemed to connect. He has a completely different world than her. She'd feel so out of place at a car meet up, weird to hang with his friends, he wasn't really home.

Now Toe Fungus. She was ALWAYS home. She has no friends so Marie didn't really have to meet anyone new. TF always talks about old shows, old music, older celebrities, thats within Marie's grasp. Although TF; yells, degrades, ignores, neglects, Mamchu, shes the only one Mamchu can rely on. She could hopefully gets scraps TF didn't want. Marie has nothing and she doesn't seem all there. Sadly, TF was the only one she could rely on.... Except when someone has a gun.

Tl;dr Marie has no one else, isnt all there, so shes stuck with a terrible person.
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 6
Eh, I’d take that excuse if Marie weren’t a grown woman fully capable of making some friends. She just liked to enable tophia and tell her “ohhh it’s okay 🧌” instead of “go get a job” so she did it to herself. She didn’t care that Tophia lowered the dose for her husbands meds, she didn’t care that Tophia took them all to comic con instead of helping with the rent. It’s just sad.

ETA: I love your explanation though!
u/misssi79 • 1 month ago • score 2
I feel shes not fully there, like she has mental issues so thats why shes so reliant and would rather depend on her toxic daughter as she has no one else. Shes just in the background, lights in but no ones home. I hope her brother/ the uncle, decides to move only her in his house.
u/flippermode • 1 month ago • score 6
Oui? Are you french? Cause aint no we around here. 🤣🤣
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 7
WE (yes, WE) love tophia and WE are starting her hair care routine TODAY! Can’t wait for the after pics! 😄🙏
u/flippermode • 1 month ago • score 3
I can't wait for the day that tophias hair turns into one of those big dread locs from not combing it.
u/GonnaBeefIt • 1 month ago • score 15
She's looking (relatively) good for someone who was supposedly SHOT IN THE DAMN FACE
u/jaydanaee • 1 month ago • score 10
RIGHT I thought she’d look like Frankenstein 🫣
u/Top-Establishment-56 • 1 month ago • score 9
S/o to the medical team that treated her. She looks damn well for the injuries she sustained
u/FeralPotathoe • 1 month ago • score 19
Marie is a victim of her own low intelligence.
u/Enough_Bag2775 • 1 month ago • score 3
WE? I'm not this two good for nothing slobs belong together!
u/PanhandlersPets • 1 month ago • score 5
I felt bad for her when she got shot obviously. Other than that and losing her son in such a bad way I don't feel bad for her. She raided tophia to be who she is. She enabled and encouraged tophia behavior so now she can live with the results. Maybe Marie should have allowed brotherchu to actually cuss tophia out before they lost housing instead of defending tophia lazy ass.
u/JimMoneyxxx • 1 month ago • score 9
She’s just an older smaller Tophia. They can both eat a big ol bag of donkey shit
u/Select_Medium5147 • 1 month ago • score 5
I don’t feel bad for Marie at all. She’s an ugly ass piece of shit just like her fat dotter.
u/After_Ad9257 • 1 month ago • score 5
Marie is a con artist and grifter too. She’s where Tophia learned it. Marie is a piece of hot garbage who let her kids grow up around a mentally unstable man. She’s self serving and is living the life she wants to live. They chose to be in the car, they chose not to pay the motel bill, and they are choosing their current situation now. I’m not surprised Tophia treats her like crap cuz that’s all she’s ever been taught in life. They are like boulders around each others necks, just dragging each other down.
u/Good-Fudge3570 • 1 month ago • score 8
Anybody who feels bad for Marie and thinks she’s a sad sweet old lady wasn’t around during Apartmentchu and hasn’t been in her Stationhead. She used to always yell at Tophia and call her stupid, not that she didn’t deserve it. It wasn’t until Papachu got locked up that she needed a new person to mooch off of so she has to kiss Tophia’s ass now. They’re both users.
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u/JesusChuy13 • 1 month ago • score -2
I feel bad for her because she’s like that thanks to tophias messed up mind
u/lady_mollelle • 1 month ago • score 8
she said germans (my people) deserve to be gassed. i will never feel bad for her.
u/Stunning-Wing-3623 • 1 month ago • score 1
u/_peach93 • 1 month ago • score 2
I shouldn’t feel bad for them but I can’t help it 😕 I know they don’t deserve my empathy but they’re just such a sad sight
u/lqurelhell • 1 month ago • score 3
i feel bad for her in how donald sr treated her in the past, BUT not for the way she sticks by her grifter child. she never taught tophia how to be independent let alone CLEAN herself properly. tophia is the reason they're homeless in the first place but apparently to marie, tophia was the only one paying the bills with whatever pocket change she made off of tik tok. she's genuinely proud of her bum daughter and enables her selfish behavior when any actual mother would do the exact opposite. theyre both racist weirdos who deserve each other 🤷🏻‍♀️
u/Anxious-Somewhere420 • 1 month ago • score 2
She’s a piece of shit idk why ppl feel bad for her stupid ass 😂😂! She raised Tophia to be a piece of shit just like her and ppl feel bad ?? Hello??? She raised that lazy fuck
u/False_Sun8136 • 1 month ago • score 1
I think Marie has a mental disability. She’s not all there if you know what I mean. I think that’s why people feel bad
u/No_Technician5024 • 1 month ago • score 0
I only feel sorry for her cause I don't believe getting shot in the face and becoming 90% deaf as a result of your manipulative daughter isolating you from your family is what she deserved.


She's a bad person. Yes. But this???? Nah man.
u/palpatine_dream • 1 month ago • score 1
Hell naw
u/angelivk • 1 month ago • score 1
she’s an enabler but i feel like she should’ve been put in a home or something as soon as the homelessness started
u/juniperbeeze • 1 month ago • score -2
didn't she get shot in the eye?
u/cronenber9 • 1 month ago • score 3
She looks like a gnome
u/cronenber9 • 1 month ago • score 2
I wouldn't care that Donald Sr is in jail either tbh lmao
u/Cute-Statistician540 • 1 month ago • score 1
When your life is that miserable, you tend to lose even basic human decency and sentiment
u/kylezmum • 1 month ago • score 1
Her eye looks good, for having been shot in it 🤔
u/seeitinperson • 1 month ago • score 2
I am empathetic towards her because at the end of the day, she's an old woman with an unstable housing situation/finances. She's too old and weak to work. She has nothing better to do other than sitting on lives all day.


It's easy to dog on her from our high chairs, but everything about this is sad. Poor Marie.
u/way222sexy • 1 month ago • score 1
no, you’d think loosing her son or nearly losing her life would make her double think about her parenting choices but i guess not. can’t feel sorry for someone who doesn’t want to get themselves out of their situation
u/ToastedBread107 • 1 month ago • score 1
we are?
u/Sven268 • 1 month ago • score 1
We? Lmao. I certainly don’t. Let the fuckers suffer. They brought it on themselves. Honestly it should have been THEM. At least while Donald Pedo Slydell Jr., is bad, and a menace, he can work and slightly contribute to society. All these two do is contribute to shitting on the street, and wasting tax payer money to let them live longer.
u/Single_Tangelo_6179 • 1 month ago • score 3
I don’t because she sticks up for miss mind chu all the time 😒
u/Bean_Boozled • 1 month ago • score 1
Why is anyone personally attached enough to these people to feel anything at all? Just sit back and enjoy the show.
u/Gogojojokujo • 1 month ago • score 1
u/TOOLfourtysixand2 • 1 month ago • score 1
Idk who "We" is but ive been a grade A hater for awhike
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u/Weedandcock4u • 1 month ago • score 1
Because she’s got worthless kids